I Think I’m Turning “Half” I Really Think So

In this article, “half” refers to a person of mixed race who is half Japanese and half something else. Although for the past 20 years it has been suggested to use “mixed-race” instead of “half”, the word “half” is still the most popular term amongst the Japanese. In addition, there are people who believe in a special formula:

Japanese × Non Asian = 1/2 = Good looking”.

Not too long ago you read Loco’s guest post on what it’s like to be a “half child” in Japan. By reading that article you’ll learn it’s not always great to be a “half” child in Japan, sadly. However, many Japanese girls long for the appearance of a “half”; big eyes, long eye lashes, tall and sharp noses, etc… Since I married a Canadian, I bet you can guess the most common reaction I get from Japanese people.

“Oh, you married a Canadian (a white guy)? Then your child will be”half” and most likely be so cute. Jealous!”

Actually, whenever I talk to someone about my marriage for the first time, 90% or more of their reactions are the same. I personally think that it’s fairly ridiculous to say that your baby will be good looking before knowing other things, like if my husband is attractive or not, but it’s probably just a form of small-talk that people come up with.

“Half” Taking Over Television

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This “half=cute” belief has probably been strengthened by those good looking idols on TV who are know to be “half”. I wouldn’t be going too far if I were to say that there has recently been a “half” baby-boom rippling across Japan. In fact, there have been so many “half” celebrities on TV over the passed few years that people often get confused who is who. Some of those celebrities even complain about how commonly it occurs. In fact, check out this “Half” special that was aired recently.

Not only TV viewers but also those who work in television sometimes believe that there are too many “half” girls and some are worried about losing their position to them. The famous comedian Hiroyuki Ariyoshi, who is known for flat-out-mean jokes, discussed this concern on his own radio program called SUNDAY NIGHT DREAMER and he said some nerd-comedians (“Nerd” because that is the actual style they attempt to portray) are losing their positions on television to these “half” girls.

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The rise of cute “half” girls’ exposure is partly because there are more mixed-race kids in Japan than there used to be. According to this “List of Statistical Surveys conducted by the Ministry of Health, Labour and Welfare”, the number of international marriages in Japan (Japanese with non-Japanese) in the 70’s was just 5,500, but it rapidly increased in the 80’s when the Japanese economy started bubbling up. Although it peeked in 2006 (nearly 45,000 couples), there were still 23,657 international marriages last year which is over 4 times that of the 70’s.

But, this doesn’t necessarily explain the disproportionate amount of “half” celebrities on television. Some of it probably comes from the number of “half” children out there, but I wonder if some of it comes from the multi-racial families that they come from. Japanese people are generally known to be fairly shy and timid, which isn’t very good for television. However, many non-Japanese ethnicities are known to be much more outgoing and “friendly”, which is good for television. The way that “half” children are raised probably makes more of them more outgoing than the average Japanese (as we saw in Loco’s article, mentioned above). So, not only are they especially “good looking” with their “half”-look, but they’re also more outgoing too. What a perfect combination for a television personality! Of course, this is only just me thinking out loud, but it seems fairly plausible in some situations.

Transformers

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The more that pretty “half” girls are exposed, the more that Japanese girls will want to look like them. Although there may be some Japanese guys who pine for that “half” look, most of them don’t put makeup on themselves, so it’s harder for them to change their appearance (unless they want to be made fun of for wearing makeup).

Girls, on the other hand, are very makeup capable and some of them are very persistent in their quest look like “half” girls. Those wanna-be-half girls have created various ways to look like like they’re “half” or non-Japanese and keep posting how-to videos on Youtube, some being quite popular. I’d like to introduce some of their makeup methods today. It’s pretty impressive how drastically they can change their appearance!

God Make Ayano Saito’s “Half” Face Makeup

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Naokoの秋のハーフ顔メイク!(Naoko’s “half” face makeup for fall)

“Half” face makeup

After watching these videos it’s clear that the features you have concentrate on are the eyebrows and the eyes. Since Asian faces are flatter compared to non-Asian people’s, it’s important to make your facial features more 3D. Here’s some things that they tend to do to achieve this:

  • Drawing their eyebrows thicker.
  • Make the space between their eyebrows and eyes narrower.
  • Make the inside tip of the eyebrow a little thicker so that it looks less flat.
  • Apply many grades of eye shadow, thickener.
  • Create longer eye-lines.
  • Apply highlight to their nose lines to make them appear taller.

In addition to “3D-ifying” their face, color contacts and fake eyelashes seem to be a staple of their tool kit. If you think about it, there’s nothing that says “half” or “not Japanese” like eyes that aren’t dark brown.

When Makeup Isn’t Enough

I’m not totally sure how much time they spend putting their makeup on, but it seems to be quite a lot. I don’t typically use makeup myself, except for special occasions, so I admire their passion for this and the time and effort they put forth. However, there are some people who want to look like a “half” but consider it too troublesome to spend so much time on makeup. For those people, there are many plastic surgeons who provide “half-looking” or “foreigner-looking” facial reconstructive surgeries. Takasu Clinic is one of them and you can see their ad for that kind of surgery.

But, paying for these surgeries can be expensive. It is surgery after all! This woman paid over $100,000 to look more Western. It turned out fairly well, but I find it hard to believe that there aren’t many problems or mistakes that get made along the way.

I’m really not sure if I can agree with doing this – you should enjoy how you look and be happy with what you’ve been given. But, I can’t pretend to know how people think, it is their bodies after all. I mean, there are some surgeries that make you look more “Western” but also have some practicality as well. For example, getting a surgery to change your eyelids to a double lid is fairly popular. This makes your eyes bigger which makes you look more Western. Plus, when you get older you’ll be able to see because your eyelids won’t be drooping so much as they start to sag.

Beyond things like that, though, it’s taking this craze a little too far, I think. What if one day you wake up and you’ve suddenly changed your mind? Or what if you go into surgery and they mess up completely? The negatives are just too great. Plus, you should be happy with how you look!

Giving It A Try

After getting all judgemental on you, it’s time to make a U-turn and try some of this myself. I don’t usually put makeup on (as I mentioned above), but we’ve just seen a lot of tips so I thought “why don’t I try one of them.”

There’s a problem, though… I don’t have any of those makeup staples, such as color contacts or fake eyelashes. Thankfully there is Photoshop, though, so I hit up my virtual makeup artist Aya. Are you ready? Here I go, I’m about to become “half”.

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Here’s without makeup

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Here’s a little makeup “added”

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Now I look half?

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Two thirds?

The first thing I did when I looked at the pictures above was to say “OMG!” and then laugh. I felt very strange to see myself looking like that. Well, I like the second one, but in the last two pictures where I put the color contacts in and dyed my hair….they looked kind of scary. I forwarded them to my parents and they laughed, too. This experiment turned out to be a great excuse for me to stick with black hair and brown eyes. I like being “natural”, after all.

The second picture also made me imagine our future daughter. I don’t have any kids now, but if I had a daughter, she might look kind of like her. Thank God my husband doesn’t have blue eyes or blond hair, so I guess she won’t look like the scary ones…as long as she doesn’t put this kind of make-up on!

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  • Mami

    Wow you know really well! Interesting. So does it mean my kid have a chance to have blue eyes, too?? If my husband’s parents, grandparents, or grandparents had them?? Sorry if I was misunderstanding… (>o<)

  • Mami

    Oh! That’s awesome♪ Happy birthday to your handsome nephews♥ (Are they twins??)

  • Mei

    No, it wasn’t. I’ve never fit in either in the US or Japan, but mostly in Japan, because the discrimination (especially by children) was much more blatant and cruel. I’ve always identified more with my Caucasian side. It took years for me to be able to talk to some of my other bi-racial friends about it, but none of them went through the same issues as I did since they didn’t go to school in Japan until college.

  • Mami

    Monster Mami!!! Cute?♥

  • Jonathan Harston

    Yes, both 30 on Friday. One’s just passed his aeronautical engineering exams.

  • http://batman.doesnthaveasite.com スクイグリー

    It’s like when a more concentrated thing and a less concentrated thing are pushed together, and the weaker one ‘absorbs’ some of the bits of the strong one so they ‘balance each other out’. So in pictures: (Weak/Strong) → (Equal/Equal).

    It’s a Chemistry term, but it’s used metaphorically in language to mean ‘becoming more like something just from being ‘exposed to it”.

    So in the original post, ‘Mr/Ms/Mrs/Msqxzp. ハーフですか’ has become Japanese simply from being in Japan. As if he/she/them has ‘absorbed’ the Japaneseness from the environment into him/her/theirself!

  • Mami

    Omedetooooooo!!! (>▽<)

  • Mami

    I see. Thank you for your explanation (^^)/

  • DAVIDPD

    Oh yes.

  • http://batman.doesnthaveasite.com スクイグリー

    That’s super lovely. There’s a song called ‘My Smile is a Rifle’ out there in the world. It’s on a bit of a freaky druggy album – which certainly shows through – but I think it’s a powerful sentiment. I’m glad it was written for the title alone.

    There’s only one thing a real smile can mean. And it’s so much simpler, and so much more potent than than any combination of intellect and words;

    Words can be clever – but also cunning, deceptive, and dishonest. A true smile can only be honest and clear – and as a result – oddly powerful. A rifle, if you will; powerful enough to pierce the armour we all carry in fear of other people’s sharp words. It leaves the of the viewer free to dispose of their armour, as they have little use for it in the face of another’s smile. And perhaps, it also leaves them with enough courage to muster up a smile of their own. Yay for smiles!

  • http://batman.doesnthaveasite.com スクイグリー

    This was a really interesting article. I like the style of writing you approach potentially controversial topics with (prostitution, attitudes towards race, etc.), Mami. They’re normally very non-judgemental as well as informative, so I feel I’ve come away with a lot to think about; not just been ‘told what to think’.

    My assumptions about why ハーフ people (I feel a bit uncomfortable using that word) are so popular in the media based on three ideas:

    Firstly, there seems to be a wide-spead general interest in Japan about places outside Japan (especially the West), and how people in those places view Japan. But most people in from the West don’t speak excellent Japanese, and… don’t actually live in Japan (the exceptions being 外人タレント, who are also quite popular, right?). I think fully ‘born-and-raised’ Western people might seem a bit TOO distant, or hard to communicate with. At least to the extent that they would feel comfortable and confident in a fast-paced entertainment show. I think ハーフ people might represent a ‘half-way’ point, where people feel comfortable relating to them, but also interested in their more ‘Western tendencies’.

    Secondly – and this is more related to your point – I think being raised in an environment where they ‘looked different’ and were always ‘they odd one out’ has some effect on how you view yourself growing up. The first-hand experience I’m basing this off is of all the ginger-haired people I’ve grown up with in the UK. I guess that makes it second-hand, but anyway, having ginger hair (or ‘being ginger’ as it’s commonly called) is quite an uncommon thing, and all the ginger people I know were either bullied or ‘single out’ fairly often during my childhood. People seemed to take this treatment in two different ways: they would either become incredibly shy and under-confident to try and hide from it, or they would become super-confident, loud, and proud. They could be ‘the jokers of the class’, one guy I knew joined a band, another guy became quite violent, but in all the louder cases it was as if they had ‘something to prove’ to people. They’d often ‘play of’ and draw attention to the fact they were ginger, to take that privilege away from other people. I was reminded of this today when I watched this video: (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BKB5qHlKiqY). He seems to have really made his hair colour a ‘selling point’ of his ‘brand’. He’s even worked it into the logo, and is also super confident and assertive. As if he’s one step ahead of people’s snide comments.

    Anyway, in short, I think people can become super-confident (or act like it) if they’re singled out a lot when growing up, as a way to rise above all the people making fun of them. Or they become really sad and quiet, but those guys don’t tend to make it onto TV as much, I assume.

    Oh, and thirdly, I think because there aren’t many ハーフ people in Japan, they must be seen as a bit of a ‘novelty’, and TV loves showcasing novelties.

    Sorry if that was a bit long, but the ginger-hair/ハーフ thing really struck me as similar, so I wanted to give my impressions. Especially after seeing that video by chance today.

    Thank you for the article!

  • http://www.doninjas.com Benn99

    I was going to say something similar re: the ‘Halfs’ on television. Even in Japan and on Japanese TV, I wonder if it’s because they are likely to have multi-lingual skills, but also like Mami already mentions, the western culture tends to be more outgoing, making them more natural as celebrities? As Japan gradually opens up more and more to global markets, it’s important for the media to be seen as a little more diverse. The other thing is idol culture, being half puts you in the perfect position of being known as a face, rather than for a specific talent.

  • Miamiron

    Word of advice from someone living in Japan, working with Japanese natives in a Japanese company, DONT use the word half in reference to others, because even though the word may be common in use, some people are really offended by it. My coworkers own experience dictates that people were speaking about them as a lesser-being (not completely human).

    This notion of being less than human was explained to me by one of my coworkers (Born and raised in Japan, probably hasnt been outside of the Kansai area) but is ethnically half-JP, half-Chinese.

  • ハーフですか

    I don’t live in Japan :)

  • KaoriCamellia

    Can only make me shrug, really. My feelings on half have always been “one foot in one world, one in the other until you’re pulled apart’.

  • ハーフですか

    At first I wasn’t sure what to think, as I had heard somewhere about “ハーフ” being kind of a derogatory term. I mentioned the term “ダブル”, which they thought was amusing but I don’t think they had heard it before.

    Now that I look back at it, it feels like they were trying to include me by applying that small part of Japanese culture to me (and they certainly weren’t trying to offend me!). So I actually kind of like it.

  • Michael

    American Corporate Imperialism, my French instructor called it – the world is going downhill because McDonalds and Coke are in almost every country.

    Then you have this, Cultural Imperialism. Wait a couple hundred years and there will be more non-Japanese/half-Japanese people born in Japan than full Japanese people themselves. Then English will slowly become the primary Language. Not to mention that the Japanese birthrate is falling, only speeding up their demise.

    Damn it, America. You give us a horrible reputation.

    And not just America, around the world, too. The no-passport immigration system of the EU has basically made a fourth of London into an Arabian/Turkish fish market. Plus, people are freely leaving Spain and Greece, for example, to other countries in the EU because of their economic problems.

    Japan will be taken over by the west, and England will be taken over by non-English people. Also, the other day somebody asked me what if in the future humanity had only once (mixed) race and one language? The thought of cultures being eaten up by other cultures scares the hell outta me. Just imagine maid cafes in the future won’t have cute Japanese maids anymore. They’re gonna be some hybrid shit.

  • Mescale

    Although the model I put forward is a simplification it is a valid simplification.
    Rather than the number of genes, whether the blue eye gene or gene combination is a dominant or recessive combination is the driving factor. But what is a dominant or recessive gene?

    Maybe out of the combinations of genes that could be expressed from those 6 genes, and their possible values, 5% of all possible combinations gives blue eyes, and maybe 60% give brown eyes.

    However that is out of all possible values.

    If the father or mother can only supply a subset of those combinations where the the chances of blue eyes are reduced (or increased)

    Of course we don’t know what combinations mean, or even if those combinations are directly responsible for the colour of an eye.

    As you say its not as simple as all that anyway. There are not only blue eyes or only brown eyes, if you look at the picture of my eye, Is it blue, grey, green, brown, a mixture?

    How would that be expressed in genes? Was it alone expressed by genes, were there other factors that caused my eye pigmentation.

    What if when I was being grown, my mum didn’t have enough blue eye pigment chemicals in her body so instead it used Green eye, or Brown eye chemicals.

    What are the pigmentation’s in an eye, are brown pigmentation’s caused by melanin, and so brown eyes a reaction similar to the tanning of the skin.

    Maybe the pigmentation of the eyes is related to the amount of melanin expressed by the mother during growth of the child. A mother who produces a more melanin may produce a child with a brown eyes and darker pigmented skin.

    If brown eyes truly were a dominant gene then there would only be brown eyes, yet that is not the case, mathematically it would be, but its not.

    Which indicates that genes alone aren’t responsible for eye colour.

    Consider the way eye colour is distributed across the world. Many populations near the poles are known for having non-brown eyes. and fair skin.

    If we accept the idea that mankind was born in Africa, or the African equivalent of a bazillion years ago, and migrated to the rest of the world, then surely it was something locally that caused the incidence of non-brown eyes to increase.

    Was it a matter of survival of the fittest? Doubtful, probably more a matter of the environment’s affect on the genes of the population. If a body changes to adapt to its environment, maybe it expresses less of some chemicals than others, less melanin, and so its pigmentation changes, not just the eyes, but the skin, the hair. Over time this gets expressed in the genes of those people.

    Genetics is a reductionist point of view, it tries to reduce everything down to a bunch of genetic code that is responsible for things. Is that really how things work? Its like saying fate exists, that you are defined by the genetics you receive at birth.

    We know however that is not how things work.

    But its a factor of how things work, its not the totality.

    On the internet, on a website, making a comment, do you think I should use the most correct and up to date theories?

    You need to think about how to communicate with people.

    Do you think people will understand the complexities of modern research into genetic inheritance?

    No.

    You need to find a simplified model.

    People won’t read a post this long, I expect you won’t read a post this long.

    But that is what your reply is saying I should write a fully accurate and correct comment based on the most up to date cutting edge findings of science.

    You miss the point that such things are beyond the layman, maybe not because they don’t have the ability to understand, but that they don’t care, or don’t want to understand.

    Look at your post.

    You have basically rubbished my post in a single paragraph but not given any proof of your claims, no alternative explanation of genetics.
    And then to compound your insult you’ve gone on to say, its all so complicated that even smart geneticists don’t understand it at all.

    So it does ask the question why you bothered posting.

    Please do reply with proof of your claims, and a more realistic model for genetic inheritance based on modern genetics, rather than Mendel-Biology 101.

  • Lava Yuki

    Me too, i prefer fair/white skin so try avoid the sun or use a parasol lol

  • Tina

    Way to generalize. So you’ve met all biracial people in the world? Your comment is really narrow-minded and borderline racist.

  • Risa

    This really amuses me, since I am “half” and always wishing to look more Asian. (Most people in America assume I’m Hispanic, actually.) Maybe we really do always think the grass is greener on the other side.

    On the plus side, I’m grateful for the growing half population in Japan! I have a chance at fitting in now.

  • A-chan

    And here I see myself – European – trying to look more Asian! XD
    At least, I dyed my hair black and I am small. But too much make up is too much of a hassle. ^.^

  • meneldal

    I think it’s mostly because when you live in a country like Japan where people look much less different from each other than in other countries, all foreigners look more attractive because of simple psychology: what is rare is more attractive. Half will work because they’re still close to the Japanese look in some way so it’s reassuring and they’re different enough to trigger attraction. I think Asian girls look better than western girls but that’s my opinion and I guess many Japanese don’t think the same.
    Plastic surgery sounds pretty extreme to me, I can understand if there’s really something about your body you hate a lot but changing completely how you look seems wrong. Everyone is attractive in his or her own way to someone else.

  • 古戸ヱリカ

    So, basically everyone’s moving one country to the left?

  • Daishi88

    “the more that Japanese girls will want to look like them.”

    This is some racist bullshit. This is the Japanese equivalent of blackface – you get to bully the “half” kids all day at school, and then, at night you can just dress up like them and have fun for a few hours.

    You can wash that makeup off after you’ve had your fun, but an actual racial minority in Japan can’t. You get your cake and eat it to – you can look like a “half” kid but with absolutely none of the bullying and racism!

    Is it possible to flag an entire article as inappropriate?

  • Daishi88

    Tofugu has no qualms with perpetrating Japanese racial stereotypes or Japanese racial epithets, so don’t bother. No one here really cares if these words are derogatory in Japan, as long as it’s OMG SO KAWAII.

  • Daishi88

    “And I have a mixed raced friends who are completely act like Japanese”

    That’s because they ARE JAPANESE PEOPLE.

    Wow. Just. Wow.

  • Daishi88

    ” The younger generation thinks being half is cool (and being foreign too), which I guess is somewhat good thing cause that means they’re more willing to accept people of other ethnicities. ”

    “Half” isn’t another ethnicity, though. They are Japanese. That’s just it: “half” isn’t about Japanese people accepting other races – it’s about them REFUSING to accept anyone who isn’t perfectly 100% just like them as Japanese.

    If you are calling a half-Japanese person who is living in Japan anything other than “Japanese,” it’s inappropriate.

  • Mami

    OH! Really? Come on. I know they are Japanese people…? it’s just a figure of speech and also just referred the word gabeechka said because it was a response to her/him. Did you read gabeechka’s comment?

    > This probably means they more or less act like Japanese people.

    In this back and force, “act like Japanese people referred” to “act shy”. It doesn’t mean they are all shy. But gabeechka and I were talking about the stereotype.

    Just came across this page…http://bridge-english.blogspot.ca/2008/11/blog-post_29.html

    If you read it, you might pick ‘selfish’ part up. It does sound like the other countries’ people are selfish compared to the Japanese people, but that’s not what she meant. She just wanted to give Japanese people advice; “don’t be too shy”.

    What I want to say is please don’t focus on details and miss the main point. On the other hands, I will be aware of what I type too. I apologize the expression wasn’t appropriate.

    (I hope this message doesn’t sound offensive because that’s not what I want it…) (><)

  • Mami

    Like Neo says in this comments, the beauty is subjective matter and “some” Asian girls like non-Asian girls appearance better. “Some” non-Asian girls like Asian girls appearance better, too. (http://www.wikihow.com/Look-Like-an-Asian-Doll)

    I agree that categorizing Japanese people “half” is inappropriate and I’m sorry about that. I thought I pointed out that I’ve already gotten annoyed at the people’s reaction to my marriage.
    Yet, the girls want to look like mixed raced girls or completely different race women isn’t racist. At least I don’t think it’s racist. They just don’t want to look like Asian. It’s their subjective belief and we don’t invade their human right; what they want to look like.

    Furthermore, not everyone bully the mixed raced kids or kids from different country. In fact, I never bully any one of them (or any Japanese). I think “some” kids, who do bully, bully whomever being standout. I’m not an expert or haven’t experienced horrible bullying, so it’s just all my guess.
    Just watched this video (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q9cTwzko1ZI). Most of them experienced bullying, but one of them were actually popular because of her race (They are Japanese growing up in Japan. But their parents are not Japanese and they have different race). So this part, ‘you get to bully the “half” kids all day at school, and then, at night you can just dress up like them and have fun for a few hours’, doesn’t apply to everyone. In fact, it’s really sad to hear that.

    It’s nice of you to speak out when you find inappropriate expression that could hurt someone else, and I indeed agree that you can look like a “half” kid but with absolutely none of the bullying and racism! Yet, it’s just sad to see that you are doing the same thing – saying as if all Japanese girls who do that make-up on them were bullying the ‘half’ kids all day at school :( …and I also have feeling that it sounds like so, but that’s not what you meant to say. So, I guess we both have to careful what our writings would sound like.

  • Mami

    Your comment is really interesting to read. I’m happy to see that this article provoked your thought.
    >I wonder how many famous ハーフ celebrities had rough childhoods.
    I wonder, too. But, probably many of them…because more than half of Japanese people experience being bullied during their childhood. According to reliable research, the person who said ‘they have been bullied during their childhood’ was women: 60.5%, men: 54.1%. I’ll write an article about that some day.

  • Mami

    Is that only me to feel that getting plastic surgery seems that they don’t pay respect to their parents? And if the kids get the plastic surgery, won’t their face likely become ‘parent’s’ taste -what their parents want them to look like?? Aww….it’s scary(><)

  • Mami

    I like your quote(^^)/

  • Mami

    vice versa(^^)/

  • Mami

    >Maybe we really do always think the grass is greener on the other side.

    Yeah! we do, don’t we? In Japanese, it is ‘無い物ねだり’(naimono-nedari) – meaning “since it’s something you can’t get or you don’t have, you really want it”.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UgS7vgquBvo

    and thank you for sharing your situation!! (^v^)/♥arigatoo

  • Mami

    the left? You mean, the east? (><)

  • Mami

    Let’s see! The super volcano might erupt before hand though….(I read that now some scientists think that it might happen around 2025 and if it did, few people would stay alive.)

  • JohnOvan

    I personally think the problem lies in people not seeing how our differences are actually beautiful. Anyhow, most of us are mixed, by now it is really hard to find a 100% anything. As far as I know there are several ethnic groups in Japan as well, but of course it is easier to differentiate between an African dude and a Japanese dude than a Yamato and Ryukyuan.

    Thank you for the article, it was very informative and entertaining.

  • Jonathan Harston

    I was referring to the ones features in the article, they just look ordinary, plain, everyday, boring, and the one that’s had surgery just looks plain weird.

  • Mami

    Thank you for your comment. (^^)/

    Yeah by now most of us are mixed. It’s said that there are a lot of Jews in ancient Japan too. I wish people liked their own appearance and were all proud of it.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=litXW91UauE

  • DAVIDPD

    Plastic surgery is an open topic in Korea. It is not uncommon to see women (and sometimes men) with bandaged faces walking around busy public areas. People are not shy about it. There are ads everywhere for plastic surgery clinics. KPOP Idols get things nipped and tucked all the time. Older women get it too. What I am saying is plastic surgery is institutionalized here. It is ingrained into everyone that it is a normal procedure, like a tooth filling. So while ultimately it may be the parent’s image of what they want their child to look like, it is the public’s fault for making it such a nonchalant idea. Most commonly people are getting the “double eyelid” procedure, which makes their eyes look bigger and more aesthetically pleasing. Second would be the “nose slendering”. Those two are not really that big of a deal, but the more invasive procedures are getting more common. “Cheek bone shaving” and “Jaw thinning” are now quite common as well. There was one clinic in Gangnam (yes, that Gangnam) that was shut down because they had a display in the foyer of all the pieces of jaw bone they had removed from their patients, it was massive glass case, filled with human jaws…

  • Daishi88

    Mami, that’s what racism and privilege is, though. These kids get bullied by other Japanese people, then those same Japanese people walk around masquerading as “halfs”.

    Do people who try to “turn half” get bullied the same way actual half-Japanese people do? That’s rhetorical, because we all know the answer is no.

    It doesn’t matter that “it doesn’t apply to everyone.” You may not personally bully half-Japanese children, but you’re using the terminology of your culture to refer to them. You’re using the same words the bullies do. You posted an article where you dressed up as a “half” person. That’s a metric ton of racial privilege.

    You’re approaching “racism” as an act of violence or malice. The girls dressing up as “halfs” aren’t being angry or violent, so it’s not racist!

    No, actually. Despite the fact that “half” people are simply Japanese people, here in Japan, they are defined by Japanese society as a separate racial category. Dressing up in makeup to look like a different race is extremely racist. It doesn’t matter if malice is intended. It doesn’t matter if the act is violent or nonviolent. Dressing up as other races is wrong.

  • Daishi88

    Mami, that’s the point I’m trying to make. No matter how nice or non-racist you’re trying to be, you’re using deeply flawed terminology and attitudes towards half-Japanese people. That’s the point of what racism is: you may not personally hate certain people, but you’re using your society and culture’s deeply rooted racist terms to talk about people. It’s unconscious.

    “And I have mixed race friends that act like Japanese.”

    Well, what does “act Japanese” even mean? Because the whole shy thing is a racial stereotype that Japanese people use to make themselves sound better than others. Japanese people are shy and polite, unlike those foreigners. And those “half” people? Well, SOME of them are ok.

    “Act Japanese” is 100% defined by Japanese people. Because, guess what? Ask a few expats in Japan what “act Japanese means,” and we’ll come up with a wildly different list than yours. Japanese people have the privilege to write up a list of positive traits that define them (and absolutely no negative ones) and then judge from on high whether or not their peers “act Japanese.”

    The blog post you linked even did it. “欧米人は日本人のように以心伝心とはいかないので”

  • Mami

    Hello! Thank you for your response Daishi:) I’m afraid you have to ask gabeechka what act like Japanese means when she or he used it. I just guessed it was used as ‘shy’ or something and that’s how I referred to it.

    Again, it was just for a reply to gabeecka. She/he used that word in her comment and I borrowed it as our conversation. It’s not about my blog.

    > This probably means they more or less “act like Japanese people”.

    If it was a completely random question, I’d come up with not only ‘shy’ like you says for sure. I’m sorry that I didn’t understand you were asking what it was as a sole question to me. I thought you were questioning the conversation between me and gabeechka above. It seems I failed 以心伝心, as well. Sorry.

  • Mami

    >Dressing up in makeup to look like a different race is extremely racist. It doesn’t matter if malice is intended. It doesn’t matter if the act is violent or nonviolent. Dressing up as other races is wrong.

    So Japanese people only look like Japanese and they should not exceed it? Can’t we wear whatever we want or whatever make-up we want to put on? And the same as other countries people?

    To me that is racism…I think people should wear whatever they want to look like. :( (Aside the terminology problem though. As I mentioned above, I agree your point that categorizing people ‘half’ can hurt someone and therefore it’s not appropriate. )

  • Daishi88

    Japanese people on TV are EXTREMELY outgoing, and again, the whole “shy vs. outgoing” thing is a red herring and racial myth.

    Japanese TV is basically people screaming at each other. A lot. I mean, there’s some interesting human interest stories, and some frank discussion, but on TV?

    In the TV world, shyness is not a factor, nor is being outgoing. ALL “talents” on TV are outgoing, and most are crass and rude. The louder and ruder you are, the more popular you will be on Japanese TV.

    So, the whole “foreign talent” trend has absolutely nothing to do with personality and everything to do with – race.

    (To put this in American terms, calling Japanese people “shy” is similar to calling black people “articulate.” It seems innocuous and not-at-all-racist, but if you know the cultural background, it is deeply racist. Leaning on the shyness of Japanese people is racist because it creates a false image of Japanese people as “quiet and polite” in distinction from foreigners, who are not “shy.” Japanese TV is the perfect place to see this, because NO ONE on TV is shy, and talking about how foreigners on TV aren’t shy is really just code for “not Japanese enough.”)

  • Daishi88

    No, sorry, you have it the other way around.

    This person spoke to Japanese people (he did not even say if he was in Japan) and they imposed THEIR racial categories on him, declaring him “half.”

    What you’re seeing isn’t a foreigner insinuating himself on Japanese culture, but rather Japanese people forcing their racial categories on a non-Japanese.

    And you trying to make “Half Desu Ka” sound like the bad guy in this situation is just outrageous.

  • Daishi88

    There are some shades of grey there, but yes.

    You can wear fashion. You can wear traditionally-inspired clothes.

    But when you’re putting on makeup SPECIFICALLY to make yourself look like another race? That is not ok.

    Even with clothes, if you’re walking around in a sari talking about how Indian you look, that’s pretty racist, too. I have students who say they want a “gaijin” name for class. Um, no. That’s racist as hell.

    And it’s not the same as other countries. In America and Canada, we have certain social rules about appropriating other cultures. It’s NOT ok in Canada or America to walk around pretending to be a race that you are not.

    A lot of people in the US are racist as hell, but if you do that on TV or in an article like this, you’re going to get called out for it. It’s impolite in a public forum.

  • http://batman.doesnthaveasite.com スクイグリー

    Thank you for your explanation. My assumption/interpretation (I clearly hadn’t read it clearly enough) was that ハーフですか had moved to JAPAN and become a naturalised citizen there. And that a Japanese person he/she had spoken to there has dubbed her/him ‘ハーフ’ because even though his/her parents were from the US, and she/he was born there, he/she had become ‘Half Japanese’ (and Half American) from spending time in Japan and becoming a naturalised citizen.

    I’m not quite sure how this makes ハーフですか a ‘bad guy’, but sorry for being so super-outrageous anyway! (*^▽^*)

  • http://batman.doesnthaveasite.com スクイグリー

    Hrrm… I thought I replied to this but it seems to have disappeared.

    Anyway, thank you for your explanation – I clearly hadn’t read the original comment carefully enough.

    My assumption/interpretation was that ハーフですか has moved to JAPAN, and become a naturalised citizen there. I had thought he/she had spoken with a Japanese person also living there, who had dubbed ハーフですか as ‘ハーフ’ because even though she/he had been born in the USA to parents also from the USA, he/she had become ‘ハーフ’ by ‘living in Japan’. By ‘osmosis’, as Nick said (this was clearly my interpretation of Nick’s comment).

    I don’t see how this makes ハーフですか a ‘bad guy’, but sorry for being so super-outrageous anyway! (*^▽^*)