I Think I’m Turning “Half” I Really Think So

In this article, “half” refers to a person of mixed race who is half Japanese and half something else. Although for the past 20 years it has been suggested to use “mixed-race” instead of “half”, the word “half” is still the most popular term amongst the Japanese. In addition, there are people who believe in a special formula:

Japanese × Non Asian = 1/2 = Good looking”.

Not too long ago you read Loco’s guest post on what it’s like to be a “half child” in Japan. By reading that article you’ll learn it’s not always great to be a “half” child in Japan, sadly. However, many Japanese girls long for the appearance of a “half”; big eyes, long eye lashes, tall and sharp noses, etc… Since I married a Canadian, I bet you can guess the most common reaction I get from Japanese people.

“Oh, you married a Canadian (a white guy)? Then your child will be”half” and most likely be so cute. Jealous!”

Actually, whenever I talk to someone about my marriage for the first time, 90% or more of their reactions are the same. I personally think that it’s fairly ridiculous to say that your baby will be good looking before knowing other things, like if my husband is attractive or not, but it’s probably just a form of small-talk that people come up with.

“Half” Taking Over Television

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This “half=cute” belief has probably been strengthened by those good looking idols on TV who are know to be “half”. I wouldn’t be going too far if I were to say that there has recently been a “half” baby-boom rippling across Japan. In fact, there have been so many “half” celebrities on TV over the passed few years that people often get confused who is who. Some of those celebrities even complain about how commonly it occurs. In fact, check out this “Half” special that was aired recently.

Not only TV viewers but also those who work in television sometimes believe that there are too many “half” girls and some are worried about losing their position to them. The famous comedian Hiroyuki Ariyoshi, who is known for flat-out-mean jokes, discussed this concern on his own radio program called SUNDAY NIGHT DREAMER and he said some nerd-comedians (“Nerd” because that is the actual style they attempt to portray) are losing their positions on television to these “half” girls.

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The rise of cute “half” girls’ exposure is partly because there are more mixed-race kids in Japan than there used to be. According to this “List of Statistical Surveys conducted by the Ministry of Health, Labour and Welfare”, the number of international marriages in Japan (Japanese with non-Japanese) in the 70’s was just 5,500, but it rapidly increased in the 80’s when the Japanese economy started bubbling up. Although it peeked in 2006 (nearly 45,000 couples), there were still 23,657 international marriages last year which is over 4 times that of the 70’s.

But, this doesn’t necessarily explain the disproportionate amount of “half” celebrities on television. Some of it probably comes from the number of “half” children out there, but I wonder if some of it comes from the multi-racial families that they come from. Japanese people are generally known to be fairly shy and timid, which isn’t very good for television. However, many non-Japanese ethnicities are known to be much more outgoing and “friendly”, which is good for television. The way that “half” children are raised probably makes more of them more outgoing than the average Japanese (as we saw in Loco’s article, mentioned above). So, not only are they especially “good looking” with their “half”-look, but they’re also more outgoing too. What a perfect combination for a television personality! Of course, this is only just me thinking out loud, but it seems fairly plausible in some situations.

Transformers

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The more that pretty “half” girls are exposed, the more that Japanese girls will want to look like them. Although there may be some Japanese guys who pine for that “half” look, most of them don’t put makeup on themselves, so it’s harder for them to change their appearance (unless they want to be made fun of for wearing makeup).

Girls, on the other hand, are very makeup capable and some of them are very persistent in their quest look like “half” girls. Those wanna-be-half girls have created various ways to look like like they’re “half” or non-Japanese and keep posting how-to videos on Youtube, some being quite popular. I’d like to introduce some of their makeup methods today. It’s pretty impressive how drastically they can change their appearance!

God Make Ayano Saito’s “Half” Face Makeup

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Naokoの秋のハーフ顔メイク!(Naoko’s “half” face makeup for fall)

“Half” face makeup

After watching these videos it’s clear that the features you have concentrate on are the eyebrows and the eyes. Since Asian faces are flatter compared to non-Asian people’s, it’s important to make your facial features more 3D. Here’s some things that they tend to do to achieve this:

  • Drawing their eyebrows thicker.
  • Make the space between their eyebrows and eyes narrower.
  • Make the inside tip of the eyebrow a little thicker so that it looks less flat.
  • Apply many grades of eye shadow, thickener.
  • Create longer eye-lines.
  • Apply highlight to their nose lines to make them appear taller.

In addition to “3D-ifying” their face, color contacts and fake eyelashes seem to be a staple of their tool kit. If you think about it, there’s nothing that says “half” or “not Japanese” like eyes that aren’t dark brown.

When Makeup Isn’t Enough

I’m not totally sure how much time they spend putting their makeup on, but it seems to be quite a lot. I don’t typically use makeup myself, except for special occasions, so I admire their passion for this and the time and effort they put forth. However, there are some people who want to look like a “half” but consider it too troublesome to spend so much time on makeup. For those people, there are many plastic surgeons who provide “half-looking” or “foreigner-looking” facial reconstructive surgeries. Takasu Clinic is one of them and you can see their ad for that kind of surgery.

But, paying for these surgeries can be expensive. It is surgery after all! This woman paid over $100,000 to look more Western. It turned out fairly well, but I find it hard to believe that there aren’t many problems or mistakes that get made along the way.

I’m really not sure if I can agree with doing this – you should enjoy how you look and be happy with what you’ve been given. But, I can’t pretend to know how people think, it is their bodies after all. I mean, there are some surgeries that make you look more “Western” but also have some practicality as well. For example, getting a surgery to change your eyelids to a double lid is fairly popular. This makes your eyes bigger which makes you look more Western. Plus, when you get older you’ll be able to see because your eyelids won’t be drooping so much as they start to sag.

Beyond things like that, though, it’s taking this craze a little too far, I think. What if one day you wake up and you’ve suddenly changed your mind? Or what if you go into surgery and they mess up completely? The negatives are just too great. Plus, you should be happy with how you look!

Giving It A Try

After getting all judgemental on you, it’s time to make a U-turn and try some of this myself. I don’t usually put makeup on (as I mentioned above), but we’ve just seen a lot of tips so I thought “why don’t I try one of them.”

There’s a problem, though… I don’t have any of those makeup staples, such as color contacts or fake eyelashes. Thankfully there is Photoshop, though, so I hit up my virtual makeup artist Aya. Are you ready? Here I go, I’m about to become “half”.

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Here’s without makeup

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Here’s a little makeup “added”

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Now I look half?

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Two thirds?

The first thing I did when I looked at the pictures above was to say “OMG!” and then laugh. I felt very strange to see myself looking like that. Well, I like the second one, but in the last two pictures where I put the color contacts in and dyed my hair….they looked kind of scary. I forwarded them to my parents and they laughed, too. This experiment turned out to be a great excuse for me to stick with black hair and brown eyes. I like being “natural”, after all.

The second picture also made me imagine our future daughter. I don’t have any kids now, but if I had a daughter, she might look kind of like her. Thank God my husband doesn’t have blue eyes or blond hair, so I guess she won’t look like the scary ones…as long as she doesn’t put this kind of make-up on!

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  • Mescale

    My understanding is that blue eye are recessive, so if you have blue eyes you’re less than a half.

  • Mami

    So, Two thirds??

  • Neo

    The more natural the best!
    I once read that mixed-raced people are more healthy as there is more diversity in the genes. But at the end of the day beauty is a subjective issue.

  • Mami

    That’s true. I agree that beauty is a subjective issue. (>M<)

  • Mescale

    Is 2/3 less than a half?

    I’d probably say parent A would be half or less, and parent B would be half or less, so if we consider intercourse is akin to multiplication, a half multiplied by a half would be a quarter.

    Of course you could argue that its possible for a Japanese ‘People’ to have a recessive blue gene, but, if that was a common situation then you would see your units( a unit is like the word for a “normal” Japanese. I think we should use this term to refer to them in the future.), occasionally having blue eyes, which isn’t common as I understand, with a population that breeds within its genetic pool of brown eyes, with a majority of units being produced rather than fractions, recessive genes would become rarer and rarer to the fact that after many generations, you would have virtually none at all. Which appears to be the case in Japan.

    Also I gave you Fremen eyes.

    THE SP{ICE MUST FLOW>

  • Mami

    Oh no I failed in math…haha sorry. Yeah, the blue eye will be very very rare as you say. But it seems a kid, whose parents are a Japanese from Tohoku area × a person with blue eyes, tends to have blue eyes more often than ones whose parents are a Japanese from other areas × a person with blue eyes…http://matome.naver.jp/odai/2137678834606457101

  • Ginger

    This makes me sad. I really wish people would accept themselves the way they are. Half girls are beautiful, Japanese girls are beautiful, black girls are beautiful, white girls are beautiful, etc etc. Natural is beautiful. It makes me feel like these beauty standards make one group feel like they are less than another because of the way they look. It’s depressing.

  • Tina

    The half look is popular but kids are still discriminated against for being half. People are so excited to see my ‘half’ babies with my Japanese husband and insist the kid will look like Darvish or Rola. Great, but how will society in Japan treat the kid since they’re not fully Japanese? It’s so hard for them to integrate, and I say this as a psychologist studying biracial kids!

  • Ginger

    Unfortunately, it won’t be easy for them. I’m mixed race and I always felt like I had a hard time fitting in and that’s in the US.

  • Ai Chusyu

    YES! Dune reference!

  • Mescale

    To me, a beautiful person is someone who accepts themselves for who they are.

    People like that have the kind of smile that radiates truth, sincerity and purity.

    A smile like that can power me for hours.

    Also here is a picture of my eye. I’m not sure what colour that is but I must be some kind of fraction

    Also whoever constructs an image of the view out of my window from the reflection in my eye, gets a cookie.

  • Mami

    Aww…I hope everything will go well with your babies and you two… (:;)

  • Mami

    I thought such problems would happen less in the US since there are many mixed race people.

  • Shinji

    My sentiments exactly.

  • Tina

    It’s getting better but if you know about the Cheerios commercial, there are still awful, narrow-minded people. Also, we tend to implicitly relate to others based on race. Because of this, biracial children can feel marginalized and isolated.

  • Mami

    I could get a cookie then!!! (^v^)/ and I like this: A smile like that can power me for hours.♥♥ lovely

  • Mami

    Oh I see…I’ve never seen the Cheerios commercial…is it on youtube? (><)

  • Mami

    I agree. Natural is beautiful! But I also wish my eyes were a little bigger…..

  • Mami

    But when I spend my day as I am (in pajamas, no make-up, with messy hair)…I also feel I’m so lazy….

  • Mami

    Dune!?!?

  • Tina

    Yes, it’s on youtube. They took down the comments but if you google “Cheerios commercial”, you can see how some people were negatively commenting about it.

  • Mescale

    When I was a younger person, I was always, miserable, depressed, bitter, cynical, etc. etc. I used to walk around slouched, scowling. ( I know I haven’t changed at all :P)

    One day I was in a bad mood, and extra grumpy miserable, and I was walking along, and a girl gave me a smile, a pure honest smile. despite how I looked, all hunched and miserable.

    And that smile, although it was nothing, really lifted my spirit at the time.

    Over time I came to realise that when you look around so many people look miserable, they are so busy worrying about things, they never take the time to smile. But when they do, when its a real smile, it makes you feel good, it makes you want to smile too.

    So I have become a smile vampire, I search out the best smiles, the ones that make me feel good.

    But I also try and spread the smiles, by smiling at people, I’m not very good at smiling, but I usually dress like an idiot, so people usually smile because of that. I also like smiling at joggers, because they are usually tired, but they’re trying their best, so I try to send them a smile that will power them along in their run.

    For a long time the way to live life has been something on my mind.

    So I have come to a list of 3 loose rules to aim for.

    Smile More.
    Never think badly of someone else.
    Do stuff.

    Obviously I’m not good at following my rules, but you gotta aim for the stars, so even if you fall short, you at least reach the top of the stairs.

  • ハーフですか

    Recently I started going to a Japanese discussion practice meetup. I was born in the United States (as were both of my parents), but I came to the country I’m in now and became a naturalized citizen.

    I explained that to a few different people (including one native Japanese person) and everyone’s reaction was 「ええ?ハーフですか?」This surprised me, the thought hadn’t even come to me.

    So it seems I’m a ハーフ despite having no ethnic connection to the country my other, uh, ハーフ comes from. Hurray?

  • Mescale
  • Larry Cooper

    I’m biased, my I think my “half” kids, both boys, are pretty good looking.

    Growing up “half” in the U.S. can have its challenges, too. We raised our sons to identify with both cultural heritages, which was aided by the fact that we speak Japanese at home and most of our friends are Japanese. At school, they tended to associate with other students who were Japanese or Japanese-American, but not exclusively. They occasionally get asked what ethnicity they are, but mixed race kids are pretty common here in California. Interestingly, one of my grandkids is dark haired with brown eyes and one blond with blue eyes. But, both speak Japanese.

  • Mami

    Thank you I’ll check it out:)

  • Mami

    (>o<) Did you get some feelings beside 'surprise'? I'm not sure if it's Hurray…thank you for sharing your experience though.

  • Chrispynutt

    I noticed that NHK world has a lot of ‘Half’ presenters. Mainly because of the quality of spoken Japanese and English in one person.

    I wouldn’t say it guarantees beauty. It does however make for some interesting looking people that maybe one race couldn’t provide.

    That said you are cute Mami.

  • lanthas

    The girl who took plastic surgery looks *scary*, more like a porcelain doll than a human…

  • Lava Yuki

    Oh my, is looking western really all that great? I know the grass is always greener on the other side, but surgery seems a little to far, no? Makeup, clothes and the double lid thing is ok, but full on plastic surgery seems risky, especially if it goes wrong…

    But i know a lot of western people like tanned skin and use sun beds/ spray tan, while Asians prefer whiter skin (my mom is like that, she avoids the sun like a plague and uses those skin whitening creams)

  • DAVIDPD

    Seems like only the halfs who retain the “WHITE” features looked beautiful (READ: big eyes). And only women….As a man who loves women with the “dreaded” “Fox Eyes”, I can say while objectively attractive, those halfs featured in the article were subjectively just okay. I really hope plastic surgery remains more niche in Japan, similar to American. Currently, I live in Korea, the Kingdom of Plastic Surgery, and it hard to even say this, but many children are now getting plastic surgery!!! The doctors say it is better for them to get it young so they can grow into it and look more natural… T-T

  • Chris

    I am half Japanese and half white, Canadian, male and in my early 30′s. Most people are surprised when I tell them I’m part Japanese. I’ve gotten Greek Italian Chinese and “you look…mixed” I’ve experienced mild racism and had a hard time identifying with both asian and non-asian groups growing up. A large portion of my life was spent wishing I’d been full one or the other. Maybe its more accepted to be mixed now but it certainly wasn’t back in the 80′s and 90′s. Just saying.

  • ZXNova

    A cluster of problems. The younger generation thinks being half is cool (and being foreign too), which I guess is somewhat good thing cause that means they’re more willing to accept people of other ethnicities. (Though it means you’re not accepting yourself) Then you have the older generation who doesn’t accept anything non-Japanese. So whaddya do?

  • gabeechka

    I appreciate the overall sentiment of the article, but one bit bothered me:

    ‘Japanese people are generally known to be fairly shy and timid, which isn’t very good for television. However, many non-Japanese ethnicities are known to be much more outgoing and “friendly”, which is good for television.’

    As a former expat in Japan, I noticed this binary between Japanese people and everyone else. A lot of people would generalize certain qualities, such as outgoingness, to all foreigners outside of Japan. I didn’t really appreciate this because there are so so so many different kinds of people living outside of Japan. Many of them (such as myself) are shy and reserved. I’ve actually heard that the distribution of extraverted and introverted personalities in the general population is roughly 50/50. Although there may be some cultures where it is skewed one way or the other, it’s always pretty close. I’ve met many Japanese people who I would consider to be much more outgoing than myself. I’ve met ‘shy’ people from all over the world.

    Also, I’m assuming that a lot of these ‘half’ celebrities spent a good chunk of time growing up in Japan. Even if they did have parents who raised them a bit differently, they still interacted with Japanese peers (in school, etc). This probably means they more or less act like Japanese people. If these peoples’ surroundings are primarily Japanese, then being “half” isn’t going to hold much weight in the outcome of their character.

    I guess the main point I’m concerned about is bundling foreigners into one, homogenous group. Cultures outside of Japan can be just as different as any one of those cultures is from Japanese culture. I think I’m also going back to the nature vs. nurture argument. I think there are very few characteristics that are intrinsic to the race of a person. It’s all about how you grew up.

  • Summerfell

    That’s very Mendel-Biology 101 of you. However, there are blue-eyed Asians, including Japanese people, and, most modern research (which is not conclusive, mind you) points to eye colour being determined by 6 genes, 3 coming from the mom and 3 coming from the dad. In any case, biology is more complicated than that, and not even experts are 100% sure about genetics and how they work.

  • Marie

    I disagree with your comment. Often the person that influences you the most are those that raised you (e.g. your parents), and these are the type of people you’ll most likely turn out to be like. Having a parent of a different ethnicity makes a whole difference. Japanese people tend to be a lot quieter as a whole compared to countries like America, because of their beliefs. Trains in Japan are ten times quieter than those here in the USA (I may be exaggerating a little, but its true that it’s a lot louder). Having a non-Japanese parent could influence you to speak slightly louder than a fully Japanese person.When I’m speaking Japanese at what most westerners would consider “talking-whispering”, I still find myself having to lower my voice due to it being too loud.

    So yes not ALL Japanese people are shy. And yes there ARE westerners that are shy. But compared to other countries, Japan is really “shy and timid”.

  • Nick

    ハーフ from… Osmosis? :D

  • Mami

    Thank you for sharing that. It’s interesting how your sons are different, eh?

  • Mami

    What is Osmosis?

  • Mami

    Oh, I don’t watch NHK world so I didn’t notice that. Is that right? And thank you for the complement♥hehe (>v<)

  • Mami

    Thank you for the link. Without that, I would have kept imagining dune buggy..:0

  • Mami

    That’s she wants to be too though. She says she doesn’t want to look like a human.

  • Jonathan Harston

    Halfs cute/pretty? Really? To me they all look somewhere between boring and weird.
    However, my two nephews are half Japanese half Chinese, so of course they look really handsome. ^v^ (And it’s their birthday tomorrow!)

  • Mami

    I prefer whiter skin too…though I’m usually too lazy to put the sun screen on though…(TT) Yeah, plastic surgery seems risky to me too.

  • Mami

    Oh, is that right? I didn’t know that more and more Korean kids get the plastic surgery done…(><)

  • Mami

    Thank you for sharing your experience. I hope the day when people totally accept mixed races will come soon (><)

  • Mami

    Yes that there are various people in the world. For example, in the video of Sanma-san above, there is a mixed raced girl saying that she is shy and she can’t make great comments on TV. And I have a mixed raced friends who are completely act like Japanese people, as well. Sorry if that sentence made you unpleasant. I apologizes. m(__)m

  • Mami

    >yes not ALL Japanese people are shy. And yes there ARE westerners that are shy. But compared to other countries, Japan is really “shy and timid”.

    Yes!! That’s what I wanted to do too.:) Thank you for summarizing it up.

    I feel the difference when I go see a movie in Canada. In Japan, people watch movies really quietly in a movie theater, whereas Canadian people laugh, chuckle, sigh, or do whatever they think.

  • Mami

    Wow this is awesome, Mascale!!! You, a smile vampire, sucked my blood so now I’m a smile vampire too:) Niko-Niko♥

  • gabeechka

    I don’t really see a correlation between being loud and being outgoing (or being quiet and being shy). You can have the desire to communicate often and with a lot of people in a loud or quiet voice.

    Also, I do think your parents do have influence in how you grow up. The thing is, we’re more influenced by them as children. In adolescence, we’re more influenced by our peers. Mixed-race people struggle with identity sometimes, yes, and the values their parents taught them play a role in that. People, however, tend to assimilate to the culture they’re most exposed to. Look at countries that had a lot of immigration, the U.S. for example. Immigrants born here take more Northern American identities, especially if they grew up in communities where there are few other immigrants of their parents’ ethnicity.