There exist stereotypes for every kind of people and the Japanese are no exception. As with many misconceptions, some of them are based on some truth that has been exaggerated to the extreme, but some of the misconceptions about Japan are downright outlandish.

Like many people, I thought that there was at least some truth to a few of these when I was a kid and started to learn about Japan and their culture. Thankfully, as I learned more and more I found out how these stereotypes came to be and the real stories behind the myths. So read on, my friends – and let’s learn something.

10. All Japanese People Can Speak English Real Good

Did you take a foreign language in high school? How much do you remember of it? Yeah, that’s what I thought. Sure, Japanese students take many years of English while they are in school, but from my experience they mainly focus on writing rather than speaking and the only ones who are really good at it are those who really take an interest in the language and study it outside of class.

Many Japanese students just do enough to get by in English class and by the time they graduate they’ve forgotten quite a bit of it. This, coupled with the fact that the average Japanese person has little to no use for English on a daily basis, causes the English skills of many Japanese people to be pretty elementary. So next time you visit Japan, don’t be surprised if not absolutely everyone speaks English as well as you’d like them to.

9. All Japanese People Eat Whales and Dolphins for Breakfast Lunch and Dinner

While Japanese people are much more likely than others to dine on meat from whales and dolphins, it’s probably not as common as you think. This may be familiar to those of you who have already read Hashi’s post Ever Been So Hungry You Could Eat A Whale, but like he says, eating whale in Japan is about as common as something eating like alligator or squirrel in the United States. It’s uncommon, but it’s still done.

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The Japanese have eaten whale meat for hundreds of years now and during WWII and the early postwar years, the Japanese ate a lot more whale meat because it was an easy, plentiful source of protein. You’ll still find packaged meat in stores and the like, but it’s definitely not a super common meal in Japan.

8. Hibachi Grill Restaurants are Properly Named

Yes, the picture above is a hibachi. Not what you expected? I’m not surprised. The “hibachi” grills you see in hibachi restaurants are actually “teppanyaki” grills. Hibachi, or “fire bowls,” are traditional Japanese heating devices consisting of a round, cylindrical, or a box-shaped container, made from or lined with a heatproof material and designed to hold burning charcoal.

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In North America, the term “hibachi” is mistakenly used to refer to a small cooking stove heated by charcoal (actually called shichirin in Japanese), or to an iron hot plate (teppan) used in teppanyaki restaurants. Armed with this knowledge, you can show off and correct your friends in the most pretentious way possible next time you go to one of these so called “hibachi” grill restaurants. Please.

7. Japanese People Don’t Like Letting People Into Their Personal Bubble and Are Really Weird About Personal Space and Stuff

For some reason a lot of people view Japanese people as being very anti-touchy-feely and kind of prude. While this may be somewhat true with person to person relationships and PDA like holding hands and kissing and whatnot, this is most certainly not true with daily commutes and train rides. Just take a look at the video below. It’s nuts.

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Japan is crowded. People need to get places. You’re going to get bumped into, crammed, and squeezed. It happens. If all Japanese people were so weird about personal space, stuff like this wouldn’t happen. People need to get to work, school, and other places, and they’re not afraid to cram together to do it. So don’t be surprised if you end up getting crammed into a train car sardine-style the next time you’re in a busy city in Japan.

6. Japanese People Are Still Sour About WWII and Are All Racist Xenophobes

Really? Come on. In all honesty I’d say that there’s more Americans that are still sour about Pearl Harbor than there are Japanese people sour about Hiroshima and Nagasaki. A lot of things happened in WWII that are touchy subjects for everyone, but that’s largely in the past for most people. Most Japanese people today are very interested in Western and American culture and are very welcoming to others.

There’s also some folks who think that Japanese people refuse to accept foreigners as their own and it’s really hard to become a citizen of Japan. Well, while it may not be easy, it’s certainly possible. Just take Donald Keene for example. He’s received honors from the emperor himself! Just like with any other country, you can Go From Foreigner to Japanese Citizen with a bit of hard work and dedication. And everyone will love you for it.

5. Only Japanese People Can Excel at Traditional Japanese Sports and Things

There are a handful of people (both inside as well as outside Japan) that think only the mighty Yamato people are capable of being good at anything Japanese whether it be the language, sports, or otherwise. This, however, is grossly untrue. Take sumo for example. What’s more Japanese than sumo? Well, believe it or not there hasn’t been a Japanese Yokozuna in like ten years (they were either Hawaiian or Mongolian).

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And then there’s Jero. Jero is the first ever black (well, half black) Enka singer in Japanese history. Who would have expected that? So while there may be some Japanese people that believe there is something different about them that makes it so only they can excel at these things, this is most definitely not the case.

4. Japanese People Are Super Polite, Like, All the Time

Have you ever visited Japan and felt like everyone was being ridiculously nice to you, even more than you would have expected? Have you ever had a foreign exchange student at your school before? Would you be super nice to them? Probably. Japanese people are about as polite as anyone else really. This is even more true when you hang around Japanese people who think foreigners are cool and want to be nice and hang around them all the time.

I mean, the Japanese language has a special level of politeness just to make sure people don’t give into their natural human temptations to be rude and crass to everyone. Okay, no not really. But in reality, Japanese people are just about as polite as anyone else when it comes right down to it. And if you want to return the politeness favor when you go to Japan, just make sure you don’t embarrass yourself.

3. Japanese People All Drink Only Sake and Can’t Handle their Alcohol

Of course Japanese people drink other kinds of alcohol apart from sake. Yes, they probably drink more sake than other nations, but probably in the same way French people would be more likely to drink more wine and Germans would be likely to drink more beer. But Japan loves wine and beer just as much as the next country. Don’t believe me? Beer was responsible for starting a war in Japan. They take it very seriously over there.

As for Japanese people not being able to hold their liquor, thats only partially true. If you’ve checked out Hashi’s post about The Science Behind Drunken Salarymen, this may be familiar to you already. About 40-45% of Asians have trouble processing alcohol and develop what has become known as the “Asian Glow.” But for those who aren’t afflicted with this unfortunate mutation, Japanese people are certainly capable of holding their own in any sort of drinking match.

2. All Japanese People Eat Sushi All Day Every Day

Yes, sushi comes from Japan. Yes, sushi is awesome and no one would be unhappy eating it each and every single day. However, Japan has a lot of other foods that are equally as awesome like tempura, gyoza, okonomiyaki, yakisoba, and even bukkake. Some Japanese people don’t even like sushi (the poor souls).

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At most Japanese grocery stores the sushi section, albeit much better than its US equivalents, isn’t that much bigger than those you’d find at your local Kroger or Giant Eagle. But of course fish is more plentiful in Japan as it is an island nation, much in the same way that beef is so plentiful in America. And now you know.

1. All Japanese People Watch Anime and Read Manga (Even in Their Sleep!)

Okay, so kids in Japan watch anime just about as much as kids in the United States watch American stuff like SpongeBob SquarePants or Looney Tunes. As kids get older, they will be more likely to “graduate” from anime onto manga (reading is hard, after all), but it’s pretty comparable to how American folks like American comic books (or graphic novels if you prefer). And just like in America, if somebody ends up being really obsessed with comics they’ll most likely be labeled as a super nerd (or otaku).

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Of course there are things that almost everyone in Japan enjoys, like Studio Ghibli, but in America we have Disney and Pixar movies that can be enjoyed by all ages as well. So next time you see a Japanese person, don’t assume that they like anime or manga as much as you do. There’s a good chance they don’t.

And there you have it. Ten of the most common misconceptions about the Japanese people debunkified. You’re welcome.

Do you have any other misconceptions you think we should have addressed above? (All Japanese people being good at math, maybe?) Or maybe you have some other questions about Japanese people and their culture you’d like cleared up? Feel free to ask in the comments!

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  • Flayer Marian

    7. Japanese People Don’t Like Letting People Into Their Personal Bubble and Are Really Weird About Personal Space and Stuff

    I actually think this is true lol.

  • Chansoriyaa

    No way people actually believe all these? Gosh. I feel bad for being that ignorant. I think the anime one is the funniest especially for self proclaimed otakus (that I’ve met anyway)

  • Viet

    Hmmm, feel that teriyaki should be added alongside sushi, as both I think are what the general population identify as Japanese cuisine. Teriyaki as seen at least in the U.S. is a forked version of what teriyaki is in Japan and something they don’t consume daily.

  • Liz Ard

    Cool article! I really like number four, because I was really surprised when I learned that you can use polite language too much as a way of signaling that you don’t really want to be close to whoever you’re talking to. Just because Japanese has this extra level of politeness to their language doesn’t mean it’s always used to be polite.

  • Larry

    10) My wife grew up in Niigata and she said her English teacher taught them English with a very strong Japanese accent, so they wouldn’t recognize properly pronounced English if they heard it. After graduation, she had no further contact with English until she met me, so she lost most of what she had learned.

    6) It seems like recently there have been a lot of Japanese dramas focused on the World War II period, including the1930s, 40s, and 50s. There has been a lot of material about the suffering of the average people, their ignorance of what Japan was doing overseas, the militarization of the culture, etc. But, the main theme seems to be about the resilience of the people and pride in their recovery from war and defeat. These dramas, at least, don’t seem to reflect “sourness.” As for xenophobia and racism, it may exist, but I certainly haven’t met any Japanese people with those attitudes.

  • 128bitigor

    I think you meant Racist Xenophobes? 

  • Abi

    I actually thought #7 was true. I have a hard time getting close to any Japanese person I meet even while trying to be friendly

  • MangaTherapy

    I heard bukkake is an excellent source of protein.

  • ですこ

     Maybe they’re just really, really confused. Or maybe they’re ツンデレ for other cultures, perhaps?

  • Mescale

    When people ask me why I watch so many videos of idols I have to tell them I’m not a pervert I’m just trying to understand Japan knees.

  • Hashi

    I-i-it’s not like we want cultural understanding or anything!

  • Viet

    hohohohoho. What kind of jeans do Japanese people wear?

  • Hashi
  • Mescale

    I don’t know, what kind of jeans do Japanese people wear?

  • Viet

    Raw denim or acid washed.

  • Caleb Hirsch

    I think this idea comes from the custom of shaking hands that Japanese are not that comfortable with. The bow greeting keeps everyone from touching each other.

  • koichi

    Personal bubble gets really complicated in Japanese society.

    There’s the bubble that involves people you know, and that one is really personal and bubbly.

    Then there’s the one that involves people you don’t know. This one you don’t care how close you are to people or how invaded said bubble gets.

    There are two very distinct bubbles, which is why people think that Japanese people don’t like getting their personal space invaded, because one of those bubbles is like that.

    Now if only I could remember the official terms for these bubbles… 

  • Shenlyu

     Not one of those is a stereotype. Try again.

  • Shenlyu

    If you want actual stereotypes start with “Japanese people are all good at math” and “Japanese people can’t drive”. 

  • boxie

    I have a question. How do the Japanese people feel about foreigners having a child with a Japanese person? I ask because I have had friends tell me their kids weren’t always warmly accepted because of this reason.

  • simplyshiny

    JERO! I love Jero. He’s pretty much amazing. AND he’s from my hometown…which won’t be my hometown in a month :( BUT he’s still pretty amazing.  Also,  we went to a hibachi place for my sister’s bachlorette party a few years ago, and I tried to tell people that it wasn’t actually a hibachi, and one girl got real beligerant and told me I was wrong….til she asked the guy who worked there… :)

  • Larry

    I think a lot of the negative images come from the kids that were fathered and abandoned by American military personnel. My Japanese in-laws have always been very accepting and affectionate to my kids. It helps, I think, that my kids were raised speaking Japanese and knowing both cultures. Oh, and it’s not just family. Our Japanese friends have never shown any negative attitudes toward our “happa” kids.

  • ZXNova

    Some of those myths I’ve heard from people at school. I remember a group of people who thought Japan was communist and that all Asian countries are communist… I still facepalm even til this day.

  • Viet

    Might as well just replace Japanese with Asian if you want to go with something that generic.

  • N’Donna R Russell

    Jero is freakin’ awesome!  I never thought I’d like Enka, but he sounds beautiful!

  • simplyshiny

    “A stereotype is a popular belief about specific types of individuals” Wikipedia
    “a simplified and standardized conception or image invested with special meaning and held in common by members of a group”
    “: something conforming to a fixed or general pattern; especially : an often oversimplified or biased mental picture held to characterize the typical individual of a group ”

    how do those not fit?
    try again.

  • Shenlyu

     Congrats on your dictionary skills. The keyword in your post is “popular”. I don’t think I have ever heard even one of those “stereotypes” expressed.

  • Shenlyu

     Stereotypes are by definition generic or commonly held beliefs.

  • Viet

    Have a cookie :)

  • Kiriain

     Nooooo! Not my cookie!

  • Kiriain

    7. Japanese People Don’t Like Letting People Into Their Personal Bubble and Are Really Weird About Personal Space and Stuff

    I think I figured out a solution for the bullet train issue. Take a double-decker bus, now turn it into a train. Add cars to taste.

    Also, if I had a voice like Jero’s, I would totally do Enka. And I have no known Japanese (however distant) heritage.

  • Erick Reilly

    This isn’t a Japanese stereotype per se, but a Japanese exchange student once told me that Americans are too polite when they speak Japanese as part of his response to my “Ogenki desu ka.” 

  • John

    Yeah, totally unexpected.

  • John

    Haha, wow that’s crazy.

  • ですこ

     Bubbles inside of bubbles? Is it bubbleception? The personal bubble and personal bobble? This is getting pretty complex. I think I’ll just use text messages to communicate with people, and decide how much they like me by the number of emoticons used.

  • ですこ

     And I have heard of all of them except #8. There’s a difference between something not being true, and not knowing of something.

  • ですこ

     Japan: Pretty much just China. I mean, isn’t that how countries that are near each other work? And they all get along and stuff, too.

  • koichi

    That would actually be a really, really fascinating study… social structure, etc., via kaomoji and emoji… I want to do this now…

  • koichi

    I see what you did there.

  • koichi

    Comes down to which circle you’re in. If you’re in the outside “have no idea who you are and have never met you” circle, things don’t matter and you can crush up against them in the train. Once you meet someone, though, people get more sensitive about their space, so you’re not wrong to think it.

  • ですこ

    I think Japan should just go ahead and invest in a second train. There’s no need to try and fit the entire country in one train.

  • John

    Yeah number 8 is more of a misconception than a stereotype, really – but I thought it was interesting and deserved sharing :]

  • ですこ

     But… but we ENDED with Japanese people being good at math!

  • Kiriain


  • Musouka

    The ‘Almighty Defender Against Japanese Racism’ has become a racist himself:
    *rolls eyes*

  • Gentlementleman

    By the love of God! I need moar of your cultural enlightment! =D

  • Gentlementleman

    Wait… I dont get it ^^

  • Shollum

    I mean, they even have big fireworks parties together and get into friendly scuffles about who really owns some of the land.

  • Shollum

    Maybe because you used the formalizing お with a fellow student?

    I think Americans are too formal because they don’t spend enough time with the language so they’re too afraid to do anything other than be formal (what they were taught).

  • Conpanbear

    No. 4 : “Would you super nice to them?”
    Anywho, I’ve not really thought too much about stereotypes before; people are people, and I think the similarities are many and interesting ^u^ (Also, I’ve never heard of “Hibachi” before; in Australia, we call them Teppanyaki {or sometimes Teppan} places.)

  • Viet

    Hmm, not sure if you response is genuine, or you are just egging me :P

  • Kimura Okagawa

    /give Kiriain 357 64
    /give Viet 264 255
    java.lang.IntegerOverflowException: ItemStack.quantity cannot exceed 127

  • John

    Props to the Australians then, haha.

  • Sangria

    That’s strange, I had never heard of those stereotypes. Normally, when I say Japan, the only thing people say is : oh, i have a japanese car.

    In fact, what I heard was, on the contrary, that Japanese were exceptionally bad in english. People kept telling me to not go there without knowing JLPT1++++. Fortunately, a few person who actually went there, told me it was not true and that they were as good in english as us, french speakers. Not good, but definitly not so bad.

    I had also heard they were eating rice, not sushi all the time, that they were indeed watching animes and reading manga, like we do with our own shows, that they didn’t particulary like strangers even if they are nice and polite with them, etc.

    It is easy to make stereotypes with exageration. I could say that american are all idiots just because some people said so. It is by no mean a stereotype because it is not a belief of most people.

    I would have called you topic : exageration of japanese stereotypes, it would have been more accurate.

    I must live in my bubble though, cause I had never heard of that!! :)

    P.S. – My english is bad but it’s normal, I’m french :)

  • roguenest

    i have other questions but they are not PG rated so let’s leave it :)

  • simplyshiny

    this. I’ve heard of a fair few of them. So unless of course, you are the god of all the universe and know everything,  (in which case, I bow down to you) there’s a chance you might have not heard something that other people have. 

  • Erick Reilly

    Yeah. He actually told me that I could just say “Genki?” so from that point onward, that’s what I tend to do.

  • syrup16g

    Never met a Japanese person who didn’t enjoy manga, anime, yes. Title of 1 should be changed?

  • ですこ

     Meet more Japanese people?

  • syrup16g

    Have you ever met a Japanese person who hasn’t read manga? Honestly though. In my cell’s phone book of hundreds of Japanese people, I can’t find one who I couldn’t ask about at least one manga.

  • syrup16g

    If someone is passing a manga around in class or in a group nobody will refuse it. 

  • Guest

    You forgot one; “All Japanese people are super, mega, ultra weird. Their TV shows are crazy, their pranks are evil, and all their cartoons end in a high school girl getting raped by a tentacle.”

  • ですこ

     Every angry scapegoating politician ever. And the stereotype is less “read a manga at one point in time” and more “is an otaku at every point in time.”

  • ですこ

     Sounds like they need to learn how to “just say no” and not give in to peer pressure. Manga is just the gateway into the crazy world of anime, tokusatsu and games, man! It does stuff to your brain, man! I spent 3 years in rehab for it, but it turned out the rehab was just a hallucinogenic metaphor for the human condition! Last time I go to the Gainax Rehabilitation Center.

  • ですこ

     They’re doing absurdest comedy? That must be what they’re all like in real life ALL THE TIME. Comedy sketches are documentaries over there, you know?

  • linguarum

    I’d say one of the most common stereotypes ever is: “all Japanese people have a camera permanently attached to their face.” (It may be suggested in the graphic at the top, but somehow it didn’t make the list.) True, Japan does make some nice cameras, and some Japanese people carry them (although more people everywhere are relying on the camera built in to their phone). But one simple fact often gets missed: when most Westerners see Japanese people in their country, those Japanese people are on vacation. And doesn’t everyone take a lot of pictures when they go to a different country? If you had only a week out of your whole life to spend in America, wouldn’t you take a lot of pictures?

  • syrup16g

    Well thank you for taking my comment seriously. Do you live in Japan?

  • ですこ

     You’re welcome.

  • JatinChittoor

    are the trains generally that crammed?!?! lol. I’ve see a good number of these videos with crammed trains but, very hard to believe. hahaha!!

  • joe

     I dont get it, is it a play on words jeans and genes ?

  • Viet


    which is similar sounding to nihonjin = japanese people.


  • julid

    I lived with a half-Japanese, half-white girl for 5 months in Japan.  She was born and raised in Japan, had a Japanese name, spoke perfect Japanese, everything, except that she was half-white.  Literally everyday somebody would say something along the lines of “Wow, your Japanese is so good!” to which she would politely reply, “I am Japanese.”  And every time they would proceed to argue, in the politest way possible, that she was not.  She had a really hard time with bullying in middle school and actually came to the U.S. for high school because the discrimination was so bad.  I knew quite a few other half-Japanese people and their experience was similar.  I wouldn’t say that half-Japanese people are hated or even necessarily mistreated, but they are not accepted as “Japanese,” which is pretty awful if that is your home and your identity.  If you’re half-Japanese, born and raised outside of Japan, you’ll just be treated like a foreigner, which you are, so it’s not nearly as bad.

  • linniea

    7. Japanese People Don’t Like Letting People Into Their Personal Bubble and Are Really Weird About Personal Space and Stuff

    lmao, no way. especially when talking to people your own age (and gender, I assume) things can get very touchy feely if people agree with you/are enthousiastic about the topic of conversation :’) great article, thanks! :D

  • boxie

     Thanks for the reply.
    Hmm. I’m really sorry to hear that, it really gives me new insight into the depths of the Japanese culture and how proud they can be of it.

  • boxie

     mmm. Thank you for the reply and the insight.

  • Saphy

    (Some of these I didn’t realize were even considered popular-yet-ridiculous stereotypes. That, or I just forgot about them after becoming more interested in Japan/Japanese.)

    Though I think it’s ridiculous for people to believe that all Japanese people are obsessed with anime/manga, I don’t think the reality is quite so comparable to Americans.

    In my experience, in the US, cartoons and comics are considered to be made for and enjoyed by children or nerds (i.e. that normal adults should “grow up” & not trifle with such childish activities- though I believe it’s becoming less looked down upon), whereas, I think it’s much more acceptable for an adult in Japan to enjoy watching anime and reading manga on a casual or even daily basis. But like I said, that’s just my personal experience through life, and media.

    Off topic: I just noticed the “Ohioan” part of your “About”. I’d say Ohioan ftw if I didn’t dislike my home state, but cool nonetheless. :D

  • Kage Kitsune

    I like how it says “All Japanese people can speak English “real good” instead of “really or very well” (idk if that was intentional but I still find it funny) haha but really, I always hear the stereotypes of them having a “martial arts background” or they are “super smart”. There are a lot of people out there who also get Japanese people mixed with Chinese or Vietnamese people, saying they all look alike. They don’t really.

  • Ryushi

    Re: no. 6, in my experience, there’s still a lot of racism and xenophobia among the older generations regarding the Chinese. My Japanese grandmother is always talking about how the Chinese are all untrustworthy criminals and refuses to sit or stand next to Chinese people. 

  • Dave

    I definitely heard #10 and I tried to tell someone that it wasn’t true, but I gave up because they just felt like they knew. Something about they take it since elementary and they teach well…

  • Guest

    The xenophobic thing is a bit iffy I think. I don’t think that the younger Japanese are xenophobic, but I have come across a few that seemed a little wary of foreigners.

    I remember this exchange I had with a lady who lives in Shinjuku with another lady who lives in Hokkaido. When I expressed my interest in the art of the Hokkaido lady, the Shinjuku lady said to the Hokkaido lady that it must be really cool that her art is appreciated by foreigners. The Hokkaido lady, however, said indirectly to me (through the Shinjuku lady) something akin to an uncomfortable “ehhhhh…. I suppose”. The Shinjuku lady thought the reaction was a little funny, probably because she herself is so accepting of foreigners.

    By contrast, I have a friend in Osaka and she is the bubbliest, most friendly person you will ever meet.

    I think the wariness is definitely affected by where they live. As a rational person, I can only hope that’s the case. 

  • Devon

    how about the myth “all Japanese girls are waiting for any “gaijin” prince charming to come along and take them away?”

  • Richard Simms

    I teach in Japanese schools and at about 5 of the 6 I go to there is at least one “half” student. One girl is half-Japanese, half-Taiwanese, so in my eyes she is completely Asian. However there is one boy in the class who insists on calling her “gaijin” all the time. There is also a half-German boy at my elementary who was pushed in front of me by the teacher and told “he is half foreign”, like we had a kind of instant bond over that little fact.

    Aside from those two instances, a lot of kids are very tolerant of half-children and even full-blown foreigners (re: me). A lot of older teachers however…

  • Richard Simms

    Regarding number 6 – I have to honestly say that the education about WWII is quite bad and lopsided for the most part. I teach English to junior high kids and both New Horizon and Sunshine textbooks have stories about the bombings of Nagasaki and Hiroshima and nothing about the events that led up to it. I can’t say if this is taken up in social studies, but the stories that I’ve read are not showing the whole picture.

  • A. Jarrett Wheatley

    JERO! the Fresh Prince of Enka!

  • grotesk_faery

    There’s a really glaring omission here, guys… And I do mean GUYS.

  • まり

    This was so awesome and funny as heck! I didn’t even know about that
    Jero dude, he was the bomb! >:D

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  • 津軽づけ

    Don’t feel bad! I met so many japanese people outside of my family and they all loved manga and anime….Some more, some less. Don’t listen to trolls~

  • John

    Yeah that was intentional, lol.

  • John

    lol, yup. Woo, Ohio~

  • Christen Abma

    Is liking manga in Japan really the same as liking comic books in America? Generally, anyone over the age of 25 who likes comic books is labeled a little odd, even if they aren’t obsessed or only mention it in passing. It’s like admitting you dance around in your underwear and sing into a hair brush. People laugh it off and think it sounds fun, but may secretly think you’re childish. Do Japanese people see anime or manga as a ‘kid thing’ or a ‘dorky thing’ by default, like Americans see comic books or cartoons?

  • ChesterBogus

    This one is true, actually. I mean, they aren’t waiting, but there are significant cultural differences in how we handle gender roles – a lot of Europeans and Americans have a macho culture of “I will take care of my woman.” Conversely, in Japan, there is a feminine culture of “I will take care of my man.”

    When these cultures meet, it’s good for everyone involved. Japanese women are just blown away by the way foreign men treat them. There are a lot of great Japanese men, and I see a lot of good, active fathers – but the cultural expectation is that Japanese men are lazy and unhelpful in a marriage. My mother-in-law actually, literally gets angry with my wife because I wash the dishes and cook dinner. It’s UNHEARD of, and my wife LOVES it. Most of her friends are wildly jealous of her because she has this foreign husband who cooks and cleans.

    Basically, you know how American men are all, “Asian women are submissive and make great wives”? Well, Japanese women feel the same way about foreign men. “Did you know foreign men will cook and clean and help around the house?” We’re exotic, and we’re commodities. Yes, we’re objectified and treated like some kind of toy – it is frankly sexist and racist. But you know what? It works. Japanese women take care of their husbands, and foreign men take care of their wives, and every one is happy. Oh, and foreign men don’t tend to cheat as much as Japanese men do (most of my wife’s friends’ husbands have cheated). It’s just a long, long list of reasons why Japanese women like foreign men.

    The only real problem is culture shock – some women can’t handle being fawned over. Some women can’t handle a man washing dishes. Most Japanese women can’t handle our casual PDA (holding hands is considered an egregious PDA in Japan). There are problems involved, but once you get over that, it’s two people who love each other and take care of each other.

  • ChesterBogus

    This one is also mostly true.

  • ChesterBogus

     What Julid and Richard Simms said is one hundred percent true. I actually had a child ask my STEPson if he was “gaikokujin,” which pissed me off to no end (I’m still stewing over it). The boy was born in Japan, yet just by being seen with me, people ask if he’s “foreign.”

    My wife actually explained that linguistically, “Japanese” and “foreign born Japanese” are NOT the same. They don’t make this distinction with any other race or ethnicity. However, my wife insists that, for example, George Takei is NOT Japanese. He’s “foreign-born.”

    So it’s a complicated thing with linguistic issues thrown in. The main thing is that, in Japan, EVERYTHING is about Japan. And that makes sense – but they take it a touch too far. If you’re not Japanese, you’re “foreign.” No distinction between nationality, race or ethnicity. Just “foreign.” If you weren’t born in Japan, you’re “non-Japanese.” If you aren’t genetically 100% Japanese, you are “non-Japanese.” It’s a kind of binary thing. It’s not entirely racist, or cruel, or anything like that, but it is definitely not nice. At best, it’s just inconsiderate – but it can also lead to serious bullying and cruelty.

    On the other hand…half-Japanese people are considered VERY attractive, and people will literally come up to you and ask, “When are you and your husband going to have a little half-white baby?!?!?!?!” It’s…again…not entirely cruel or racist, but it is by no means polite.

  • ChesterBogus

     One of my wife’s favorite songs is called “I DON’T UNDERSTAND,” and the lyrics go, “I DON’T UNDERSTAND, my English teacher spoke in katakana, so there’s nothing I can do about it.”

  • ChesterBogus

     No. Adults read comics. It’s hard to explain. It’s not like EVERYONE reads comics. But, say, in America, if an adult read Seventeen magazine, you’d think she was crazy. But if she read Glamour or something like that, you might roll your eyes, but you wouldn’t think she was crazy.

    I guess just think of comic books as on the same level as magazines in America. There are low-brown and high-brow magazines, but they’re all short, simple, easy reading.

  • boxie

    Wow. I’ve have gotten a lot of replies to my question. Thank You.
    And from them all I can’t help, but wonder if it’s one of those generational “things”. I should probably just wait until I go to Japan myself to find out.
     And again thank you all for your insight.

  • Www Photoman

    Suicide is also a common Japanese stereotype.

  • Www Photoman

    Jero was the singer of a Crayon Shin-chan movie theme song.

  • Amy Lee Tighe

    What are some items that are commonly used by Japanese people, such as bento boxes and random things like that?

  • Chuck Waterman

    Hi. Chuck in Kumamoto, here. I used to have exactly the same perspective as you’re sharing here. However, it has altered a bit due to some recent conversations I’ve had with my college students. No doubt, children may make “gaijin” comments toward anyone they perceive as different, but young adults I’m talking to perceive a difference between Asian non-Japanese and “gaijins”. They’re telling me that they don’t use the word “gaijin” to describe Thai, Korean, Chinese or Taiwanese people. Therefore, it now seems to me that adult Japanese recognize at least two categories of non-Japanese people.

  • drayomi

    It depends on where you are and what time of day it is. Osaka trains were almost never as packed as Tokyo trains, but since I never got on a Tokyo train during rush hour it was never that packed either. I’m sure the video is of a Tokyo train during peak rush hour. The trains we took in Hiroshima were never even close to that, ever.

  • Carrie Sullivan

    You know, I wonder if not wanting to shake hands has something to do with the high population density and not wanting to spread germs thing? Like how Japanese people will wear face masks when they’re not feeling well.

  • Carrie Sullivan

    Maybe the uncomforable reaction was a reaction to her work being complimented, not necessarily because you were foreign?

  • Carrie Sullivan

    I think it’s probably a more of a necessity thing. Americans wouldn’t cram up against people they don’t know either unless they were in a crowded elevator or something. It becomes okay when you don’t have a choice.

  • Carrie Sullivan

    Occassionally the trains in Dallas, Texas get to be almost like that ^_^;; It’s not quite as packed, but especially around 5pm going from downtown on a weekday, it’s standing room only and “personal space” goes out the window. At one point, the UT Dallas shuttle bus got to be like that at certain times, before they added more buses to the route. But if you drive everywhere (or if you live somewhere where the public transporation system isn’t as overloaded) it’s not something you would see, I guess…

  • Carrie Sullivan

    I mean, what are you going to do, wait another 20 minutes for another train to come along, or try to pack yourself in anyway you can?

  • John

    Well Japan’s suicide rate is the 7th highest in the world, so I dunno about that.

  • John

    What’s that?

  • RocMegamanX

    About #6, what about Grave of the Fireflies? That movie is infamously depressing, and I worry that it would demonize America because of the situation depicted in the film.

  • kit

    all japanese people are tourists?

  • nippon

    This is good one:
    All hibachi chefs who can perform are non Japanese.

  • Fartman

    they’re super gay and play games all the time

  • Tandras

    Where did you come up with these? Who thinks the things you wrote about? I have never met anyone who thinks most of these except maybe anime/manga one.

  • Tandras

    You are mostly correct. The part where you said holding hands is considered bad in Japan is not correct. I live in Japan, my fiance is Japanese we hold hands all the time and so do all of our friends (all Japanese couples). No one I know of here thinks holding hands is bad.

  • kawaiithelinnie

    omg, the otaku girl in the comic book store video looks just like my cousin – and she’s not even japanese. we live in england.

  • Keima Suragi

    I watch anime all the time so i learned from it that Japanese people are not much different from anyone else

  • Joe Momma

    think the atom bomb melted their brains a little bit so now they are all a little retarded( dating a chinese girl and she is in no way as weird as these people) Even she told me she is freaked out by Japanese. They give Asians a bad name.

    This is how

    Anime porn getting raped by tentacles

    they like to clamp their nipples(WTF)

    sell used underwear in vending machine

    sex game shows( a guy feel on like 20 boobs and has to guess if they are his wife’s. he got it wrong so they sprayed him with some shit like han solo .

    Some are very nice though………

    also my family is a HOST family for those who know. Well we had a Japanese guy (18yrs old)

    stay for a few months but my parents kicked him out cause he was too weird. well to elaborate he was dumb . played some game where you have to think of a word that starts with a certain letter and has to match whats on the card, Any ways the letter was P and the card read something you keep hidden……..My parents a devote christian so imagine their surprise when he said PENIS….Weird of all though. he had no friends, and only would play with kids and legos and transformers and when i say kids i mean my neice and nephew whom are 6 and 4……………………… Japanese are weird… I could go all night, trust me they are weird.

  • Joe Momma

    sounds racist to me like Japan still has a little bit of fascism left in em, Only other country to do that was Hitler and the arian race…..NEVER heard of this in any other country. If i am ill informed please let me know.

  • bobinski

    i heard all japanese watch tentacle porn and/or are pedophile kis rapers

    i dont really think thats true, i just wanted to know where this is comming from

  • bobinski

    sorry, i mean kid

  • Maximuz

    Cool blog, I just came back from my second trip to japan!

  • WhatDidIJustRead

    What the… Stereotypes from the backwards universe?

    10. Japanese are notorious for their bad ingrish. Where’d ya get that they were good at english from?

    7. It’s a very densily populated culture. I don’t think anyone would think they’re touchy about their personal space.

    3.-1. even more ridiculous, kinda like saying everyone in Britain listens to justin bieber all the time.

  • Meh

    1. When a country has more than hundred million inhabitants, the chances of having a couple of wierdos goes up. A lot.
    I mean, it’s like claiming all americans are retards just because a couple of dozen of them didn’t know how many sides there are in a triangle. Or that all americans carry guns with them at all times to shoot whoever gets on their face.

    2. Porn. A lot of countries have it. Healthy people make use of it. Sick people do not. Christian zealots… are weird in either case. Annoying too.

    3. Cultural differences do not make people weird

  • Meh

    America and black people. And half black people.

  • Blue X

    the example you are using seems largely false- as Its still expected for the wife in American relationships to do all the house work -.-. women are expected to be “natural better” at cleaning,cooking and doing laundry. Not mention the sexual assault and domestic violence race in America are extremely high, the idea that these culture work together well cannot be true. Sure their can be some people who can make it work but its deffinatly not that way for all..

  • ひろみ

    Bwahahahahaha…I remember watching the girl getting raped with the tentacle…I was watching it with my bachan…talk about awkward…

  • Brandon Purvis

    I think i love them more than they love tentacle porn! (warning: I’m not a stereotype loving asshole… its a joke)

  • BoxerRebellion

    Japanese men have the tiniest wieners?

  • JD

    I lold, a weeaboo who is such a delusional goofball that he thinks he is an authority about Japanese culture. Too funny.

    You bring shame to both races.

  • sharingan

    You forgot, “Girls in anime and manga have big boobs because the actual Japanese women are all flat chested and have no boobs. So Japanese boys and men aren’t used to having big boobs around and miss out.” I hate when Americans say that. I’ve seen so many Japanese women with far bigger breasts than american women. To me, Japanese women are one of the most cute/hot/beautiful type of women, regardless of “boob size.”

  • Vvvvvvv

    In last picture, was I the only one to notice she was reading soul eater,

  • wtf?!

    This is the most absurd piece of drivel I have come across online in a long time. not every single Japanese person eats a certain thing for breakfast lunch and dinner? No shit, Sherlock. Prick.

  • Tommy Chris

    I have actually NEVER heard of any of these stereotypes. It was a waste of time.

  • SNICK Ruled

    Hope they can speak English “more good” than you.

  • Vincenza Vicky Maione

    Hahahahah hello there, Tofugu!
    I have special memories related to the Japanese Glow. hahahahahah there’s even someone who gets their eyelids bright red after just one sip of alcohol! *rolls*

  • Innermike

    Sarcasm, not trolling. Check his reply to the top comment for a more clear example.

  • bob

    But The way its handled in Japan is different. I’m Australian not American. But I know in Japan, a Wife’s Husband, If they were invited over to a place for Dinner, would do nothing to help out. Its really taken to the extreme more In Japan. Form what I have seen living there.

    The Men work and women clean, is really common. In a lot of countries. But in Japan its not just for the Couple, it extends out to the whole family. Say, if you went over to your Wife’s family house a Guy from America/Australia might try to help out a bit. (Cooking,cleaning plates) Yet in Japan, it wouldn’t happen. They wouldn’t do anything. The women would cook,clean and get everything ready. But also I think Japanese women have more control over the house, and their children. Then in a Western Household.

    My Girlfriends, Japanese Parents. Her father doesn’t ever Cook, (He can’t cook) she is kinda expected to cook for her Dad. If she lives in their home. But on the plus side, I think her father would pay and look after her without complaining.(Even though she is 31 years old) Yet in Australia If you were living at home with your parents I don’t think you would be expected to cook for you Dad (Because he is a Male) But on the other side you wouldn’t get any money from your parents or not as much, or would have them constantly complain.

    It is different in Japan, Men are seen to be more important in some ways. When it comes to the work place or having dinner cooked. But on the other Hand, I think women have more say when it comes to their children and the household. But still I hear overall it is a more Male orientated society.

  • Jade Takashi

    The american people did nothing to the Africans like what Hitler did to Jewish people and in trying to create the perfect race. While I am not denying that many of the imported slaves and half Africans suffered what happened in no way compares to Hitler. He murdered people who did not fit into his idea of the perfect person. Also to be said that the original slaves in the Americas were actually white …….. then the British started importing cheap labor from Africa.

    Maybe next time you make a comment like this you try and do some research first or at least make sure that your brain is working. I found this extremely insulting being that people make such a large deal out of the African slaves in America even thought almost every country has used slaves within their lifetime ……… many of which have been white people. Africans were used due to the high demand for cheap labor. Again not excusing out saying that the way the slaves were treated was right just trying to point out that it has happened everywhere. Comparing something like that to the largest case of genocide in history just does not work.

    Please think of this before making another comment such as this next time

  • rei

    Just to burst your bubble too. I have met some Japanese who are rude and not nice. Last time when I went to Tokyo. So these rude Japanese do exist unfortunately. But, they are quite rare. I mean of 100 Japanese I talked to, there would probably be one or two who are sourpusses. LOL

  • Guest

    This was a very interesting passage to read, but I have one question. me and some of my friends (not all of them!), are fans of Anime and Manga, and get quite insulted whenever we are asked if that means we like pornography. My question is why is porn big in Anime and Manga (I’m not saying all of it is porn), but why is Manga/Anime stereotypically known for pornography?

  • Annie

    Not ALL! Ever heard of Case Closed? 名探偵コナン
    That is a good manga series.
    Some of their animate TV shows are AMAZING! Take Case Closed as an example again! Never use the word ALL when stating an opinion again, it could become a serious issue. 😡😠

  • KatnissEverdeen101

    I didn’t know anime was so childish in Japan. I knew anime and manga wasn’t ALL they care about, but I just didn’t know they considered it pretty childish

  • Morgan

    You forgot the “Oh, Japanese people are perverts!” stereotype. That stereotype is completely untrue! My aunt’s Japanese and I would know! Even though there’s a lot of perverts in the manga and anime, but that doesn’t mean they are perverts!

  • Eliytres

    The Japanese are the worst English speakers I have seen in my life. They’re pretty bad at writing it, too.

  • Annie, Are You Okay?

    Annie, not to sound condescending, but you need to reread the post. “You missed one.” Think on that for a minute. And also, because you told someone over the internet to stop being ignorant doesn’t at ALL mean they’ll stop. I hope you’ll stop telling everybody what to do.

  • Eros

    Shut up Jade, you condescending bitch. You talk to damn much and you’re not that smart.
    You jumped to conclusions about what the guy was implying as well. That’s fucking annoying. Went way of the original subject and jumped into a history lecture. No one caresss.
    Seriously, get a clue. I would assume he meant that people still have a little bit of a stigma towards black/white interracial relationships and the children that are part of it. Mostly old, white people born and raised in cities.

    tl;dr: Make your points with as little jargon as possible. No one wants to hear you mumble on like an arrogant douche.

  • Brian Bello

    i got a question? is it true that Japanese girls drop head over heels for any man that sings a song in English at a kareoke bar?