Understanding Japan Through The Karate Kid

Today’s guest post comes from everybody’s favorite Kiwi, the awesome Hikosaemon. He’s an incredibly prolific video blogger living in Tokyo, and his post today is about coming to understand Japanese values. Enjoy!

About five years ago now, I sat in a meeting room being interviewed by a very senior woman executive of the American company I eventually joined. I had made the decision that after a total of 11 years working in Japanese companies for Japanese people, it was time to make the jump into a gaishi-kei (a foreign company).

She looked at my rather unusual resume, noting that I had spent my entire working life in Japanese companies, working for Japanese people and speaking Japanese. She turned to me and asked me a question which caught me off-guard.

“After all this time working in Japanese companies, what would you say is the most important thing you’ve learned?”

That’s a tough question. I hesitated, wondering how I was supposed to answer such an open ended question. But after a few seconds, a phrase popped into my head that really best summarized the sum of what I had learned through all those years of learning to cope and survive with the Japanese work ethic.

I responded: “little things are big things.”

Uh Ohhh…

Talking about “culture” is always a bit of a trap. Political correctness tells us not to generalize about large groups of people, and makes us very aware of the many exceptions to every general principle we may be tempted to observe.

At the same time however, there are broad differences in how people interact within different national cultures, that transcend simple individual differences, that are influenced by the history and customs of the location they originate from.

Such generalizations don’t work in every context, but after long resisting the idea of using them, I finally came to realize that a couple of general insights about Japanese culture really helped give me a context to understand many of the attitudes and work practices that I simply could not otherwise wrap my head around.

Boiled down to its very essence, the unifying realization that I came to is that just about every aspect of life in Japan, from all kinds of businesses, to clubs, to sports, to hobbies and recreation has the mentality of the Japanese artisan infused into it to some degree.

Understand Your Own Values In Order To Understand Others

The only way to begin to understand any culture in context, is to first have some objective understanding of your own culture, and to break through the presumption that “norms” of your own culture are not the ”universal truths” that we often believe them to be.

Working for Japanese, as a New Zealander, I found many aspects of “common sense” from my own culture, frankly, completely lacking in the way that Japanese work and play. The, admittedly very WASP values that many New Zealanders carry with them through the world include concepts such as:

  • Family first
  • You work to live – you work in order to be able to go home and spend time with your family while providing for them
  • The primary goal of work is efficiency and productivity, finding better ways to get things done is a constant goal
  • The primary purpose of out of work personal activities is enjoyment and relaxation

These aren’t all of them, but these are the values I had which I found most conflicted when trying to adapt to working conditions here.

Wax On, Wax Off

One of my first introductions to Japanese culture that did not involve WWII or Ninja Turtles, was the movie Karate Kid. I must have been about 10 when it came out, and remember watching it, being a bit puzzled, as I’m sure many other kids are, by the unusual training that Mr. Miyagi (for some reason “Mr. Miyaji” in the Japanese dubbed version) put Daniel san through, painting fences, waxing cars and sanding floors. It didn’t make any sense. Mr. Miyagi looked simply like a bully using Daniel as a servant.

As we all know, forcing Daniel san to do all those crappy jobs was an indirect way for Mr. Miyagi to build Daniel’s character, and train him without jumping straight to the super sweet ninja death grips that every kid wants to learn in karate on day one. Over time, it’s something I came to recognize as the artisan work ethic that can be seen to different degrees in most aspects of life in Japan.

The only difference is that unlike the movie where Daniel san is only tormented for a few weeks, in real life, you often end up waxing on and waxing off for decades.

Not Getting It

My own experiences often synced with those of others like me who felt frustration and exasperation working in Japanese workplaces. Getting dressed down for things like using the wrong colour pen, or there being a single spelling mistake on an 80 page document I created, or worse still, being accused of being lazy when finding quicker more efficient ways of performing certain tasks.

From part-time jobs to rugby clubs to different types of companies, this kind of obsession with superfluous detail is something that drives many people – Japanese and non Japanese – nuts when living and working in Japan. The problem that I had was that while I could understand that different people work differently in any country or culture, in New Zealand at least, I could usually understand the mentality of people, even if I disliked or disagreed with how they worked. In Japan, working weekends and late nights in ways that made no rational sense to me was something that I struggled with.

Over time, I have seen the most committed hardcore Japanophiles throw their hands up in exasperation, call BS, and leave situations like this. My problem was that coming from NZ as a university graduate, I had promised myself that come Hell or high water, I was going to stay in my first job here for at least 3 years; so I searched desperately to find a handle I could use to at least understand why I was working late into the night and throughout my weekends doing what often seemed like menial unnecessary tasks.

One Night Taichi Sakaiya and Baigan Ishida Saved My Life

The epiphany hit me after about a year being in Japan. Having done a lot of reading of books on Japanese culture and society preparing to come to Japan, and finding all of that preparation of very little help when I was here, one day I flashed back to a passage in a book about Japanese society by former METI bureaucrat Taichi Sakaiya called “What is Japan.”

When I first read it before coming to Japan, I didn’t really like the book. It was extremely broad and general, attempting to explain all of Japanese culture with sweeping generalizations, based on chains of logic that jumped all over the place through Japanese history, culture and tradition. It was very unlike western academic writing that I was used to and had pretty much ended up disregarding most of what the book had to say upon first reading.

However, what brought me back to the book was his outline of what he sees as the origins and nature of the Japanese work ethic.

Sakaiya explains that Japanese leaders around 400 years ago faced problems of economic instability caused by a large, industrious population living in a country that was resource-poor, and unable to sustain prolonged consumerist economic booms.

The cover of the book "What Is Japan?"

Rulers of the time found a useful solution to this problem in the philosophy of a school of Zen Buddhism set up by Baigan Ishida, based on the precept that “all work is the pursuit of knowledge”, whereby work is seen primarily as a means of building character, and only secondarily as being productive. By making a virtue out of hard work and frugality at the same time, the philosophy emphasized the showing of dedication to detail in work, rather than production.

The shogunate adopted and spread this philosophy throughout Japan for the “cooling” effect it had on Japan’s boom/bust economies of the time.

Baigan IshidaBlame this guy for everything.

Sakaiya cites this philosophy as lying at the root of the obsession of many Japanese with attention to detail, even where such detail is unimportant. He cites examples of imported products failing in Japan, not because of poor value or function, but because of people being dissatisfied with more superficial aspects of the build and finishing of such products.

If you go online nowadays and look at restaurant and product review forums on site like Kakaku.com and Yahoo Gourmet, you’ll see that many of the sternest reviews often obsess more over aspects of presentation and packaging more than the product or meal itself.

People have a way of judging performance not by how core functions are performed, but rather on the dedication to working hard shown by the person being judged, and their attention to unimportant detail. The sign of an artisan is someone who spent years or decades as an apprentice, tediously being forced to learn to perfect every aspect, important and unimportant, of what they do.

This philosophy remains, in my experience, deeply embedded in the culture, be it in school, clubs, sports, hobbies, service industries, or manufacturing. For me, understanding this at least allowed me to for the first time understand why I was getting in trouble for finding more efficient ways to be productive, why my superiors would never simply give me answers to questions I asked about how certain things are done, why everyone would badmouth people who left work at a reasonable hour, and why such emphasis is placed on demonstrating dedication through long hours spent on relatively menial tasks.

Oyassan

The first Japanese comedy skit I ever laughed at was “Oyassan” by a comedy troupe led by the duo Downtown. It’s the same scenario played out in various old-town settings of an old artisan mercilessly bullying a young apprentice first with verbal, and then escalating physical abuse.

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Having been mystified trying to keep up with other Japanese comedy skits up until first watching this, I laughed until I cried, simply because I recognized the scenario from being sternly dressed down at my part time job at a souvenir shop in Auckland for similar transgressions, such as placing a price tag on the lower right instead of lower left of the reverse of a box, or using a blue pen instead of a black pen for credit card forms.

It’s never as bad or extreme as it is shown in the Oyassan skit, but it does illustrate in a vivid way the kind of Karate Kid training that apprentices in Japan go through in contexts that go beyond the artisan setting from which such practices originated. Young rugby players are forced to hand wash the jerseys of senior team players (and dressed down for missing spots). Apprentice chefs can spend years simply cleaning and chopping before being allowed to cook.

In office environments, I have worked in different companies where high level responsibilities such as being allowed to act as a note-taker in a meeting, or to pick up the phone and talk to clients, are privileges that can take years to earn. Staff within manufacturing companies being groomed for senior management are forced to work on all the production lines and business areas of the company over years and years, so that when they become senior managers, they understand every aspect of the companies they manage and the products they make (something that gives me huge respect for the senior managers of Japanese companies I have met).

The idea is that the people in the senior role in all these scenarios must first foster and shape the character of the apprentice through hard work and perfectionism.

But Just Remember…

In my early years in Japan, I saw many foreign workers like myself come and go: Japanese-speaking, bright-eyed, with big dreams of making an impact working in Japan, leaving after just a couple of years exasperated at the BS that people have to put up with.

Indeed, this same culture is what also drives many Japanese to live and work abroad. Japan’s high rates of burnout and stress related illness are testament to the negative side effects.

As a foreigner here, what killed me was that I couldn’t anchor myself with any kind of philosophy to understand WHY people were behaving as they were, for me to process and put in context what was expected of me and how I was supposed to succeed by the standards of those judging me.

Understanding the philosophy also helped me to  recognize the positives of this ethic. It is behind the reputation for high quality of manufactured goods from Japan, and the many humble hard working engineers, chefs and artists from Japan who have become world leaders simply through their dedication to perfection of their chosen crafts.

An explanation very similar to the one above was given to me by a Nikkei American coworker. The need to show dedication to working, and the need to not be seen to be letting the team early by leaving when your work is done when others are still busy. It felt liberating to be able to understand it. But then my friend, who is an American with Japanese parents, added the kicker:

“Just remember, it’s all bullshit…”

The aim of this is not to discourage people from coming to Japan. On the contrary, I want more foreigners to come to Japan, and for Japanese people to have greater exposure to global influences.

The point is however, that the philosophy outlined above pervades most aspects of life in Japan, and based on the values that I brought with me to Japan, it was completely incomprehensible. Understanding expectations and following them is an important part of living life here.

But at the same time, never forget or let go of your own values. Having the ability to analyze situations accurately and in detail through multiple cultural prisms is a valuable tool that few people have – even those who are able to proficiently speak foreign languages.

A Mr. Miyagi motivational poster

For me, understanding the Japanese artisan work ethic was one of those magic “keys” that made a lot of aspects of living in Japan that I was struggling with make sense. It doesn’t make living here any easier, but it gives a context through which you can understand many of the unsaid aspects of things going on around you, that often based on pure objective logic will not make any sense whatsoever. So try to bear the above in mind whenever dealing with Japanese culture, keep an open mind, and go and wax 50 cars for me. Now.

  • http://thepretentiousgamer.blogspot.com Rachel

    Loved this post. I’ve read lots of books that are like “Japanese business is CRAZY!” but never really seen it explained. 

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_C2XD5DWM65GS4ZVC52AERY2BZU mark

    Great articel Hikosaemon :)
    Hope you will write a guest entry soon! And keep more videos comming :D

  • JD

    This might be the most insightful writing on Japan I’ve ever read. It IS discouraging, in a way, because I certainly had my doubts about wanting to go live and work in Japan while I read it, but I’m convinced it needs to be drilled into the heads of all students of Japanese who are raised in the West, so that they have some understanding of what they’re in for.
    I might end up going mad after a couple of years there, as I’m definitely the kind of person who takes shortcuts to save time :P

  • JD

    This might be the most insightful writing on Japan I’ve ever read. It IS discouraging, in a way, because I certainly had my doubts about wanting to go live and work in Japan while I read it, but I’m convinced it needs to be drilled into the heads of all students of Japanese who are raised in the West, so that they have some understanding of what they’re in for.
    I might end up going mad after a couple of years there, as I’m definitely the kind of person who takes shortcuts to save time :P

  • JD

    This might be the most insightful writing on Japan I’ve ever read. It IS discouraging, in a way, because I certainly had my doubts about wanting to go live and work in Japan while I read it, but I’m convinced it needs to be drilled into the heads of all students of Japanese who are raised in the West, so that they have some understanding of what they’re in for.
    I might end up going mad after a couple of years there, as I’m definitely the kind of person who takes shortcuts to save time :P

  • Heather Meadows

    Wonderful post! This really gave me some insight that clicked with what I’ve heard and experienced. Thanks!

  • Heather Meadows

    Wonderful post! This really gave me some insight that clicked with what I’ve heard and experienced. Thanks!

  • Heather Meadows

    Wonderful post! This really gave me some insight that clicked with what I’ve heard and experienced. Thanks!

  • Blair Williams

    Thanks for the article HIko–as usual it’s well written and has an intriguing point of view. I’m commenting because I find the front part of your piece to be the most interesting to the written whole, as I agree it’s important to ‘know your roots’ before you know those of another. As you note in the ‘culture’ section, culture is a bit of a trap, but I think you might referencing ‘nationalized culture’ here, as opposed to business (salaryman) culture, which is your intended target. As an aspect of analysis, ‘culture’ can range from the micro to the macro (say, hip-hop culture as compared to some sort of aggrandized ‘Japanese culture’), so it’s OK to say that there are generalized ‘Japanese business culture’ trends, but it’s pretty tenuous (and possibly essentializing) to say these are ‘Japanese culture’ trends. I’d like to see you draw out the Taichi connection more than as an eye-opening analogy for yourself–what precisely is the connection between a monk from 400 years ago to modern business strategy? A sort of aesthetic capitalism? Let’s run with that–could aesthetic capitalism (or whatever we want to insert in here) be a way of differentiating Japanese commerce within the global economic system (i.e. “The U.S. makes cars, but Japan makes them look good.”)? I write at length here using some heady language to push you–you’re a great writer and have great insights, but I’d really like to see more of the ‘self-reflectiveness’ that you argued for. As an example–how does being a New Zealander (with broad connotations of islander, colonization, tension between contemporary history and older history, uncertain power standing among the ‘West’) have similarities to the Japanese experience? I think this would make an interesting article, and you might include the ‘WASPy’ differences that you listed. Just offering an opinion–as usual, another thought provoking article. Cheers.  

  • http://gakuranman.com Gakuranman

    Nice job Hiko :).

    I think you’ve presented a fantastic explanation for some of the value-systems and ways of thinking many Japanese people hold, but I think it’s also important to remember that there are an incredible number of alternate potential explanations for why a country and its people think and feel the way they do.

    Also, as you noted and your friend rather abruptly concluded, none of the explanations are meant at solving the ‘problems’ felt as a foreigner (or indeed as a Japanese person), but merely serve to give a background to how they may have come about. There is no right or wrong present here – but of course, that’s not to say one couldn’t argue for either case. I think it’s good that you refrained from making a judgement on which is ‘better’. Cultural anthropology is indeed a fascinating and very delicate subject!

  • http://twitter.com/jomann Joseph Lindsay

    This article taught me a lot about japanese work ethic, and I believe I can use it later on when I am faced with working in Japan. thanks for sharing!!

  • jjxx

    Thank you for the insight Hikosaemon. Much appreciated!

  • jjxx

    Thank you for the insight Hikosaemon. Much appreciated!

  • http://www.twitter.com/Oldenyouth The Oldenyouth

    Dear Hiko,

    My commentary is more or less the same as everyone else’s. Skip the praises, agreements and the other sweet wordings aside, I have one more commentary…and that is:

    Know thyself. When ye get to know ye self, you get to know the others. When ye get to know the other people, ye get to know how to coexist with many people.

    Thus spoketh,
    The Oldenyouth….oh and Hiko, fetch me some Manuka honey and beeswax :P Bah. Good post as usual. OLDY is impressed.

  • http://twitter.com/manastar Mana

    Excellent post! I can just imagine all the other foreigners who have lived in Japan nodding their heads while reading. I know I certainly did, and I’ve only been here for a bit over 2 years now. And as you said, the struggle continues. 

    I have to admit I still have my very frustrated moments, but at the same time I’m slowly finding I can “gaman” things much more easily than before. I actually rather like my part-time job at the real estate agency now (even when dealing with rude realtors) and feel more comfortable in general. And it came from as you said, understanding my own culture and not forgetting its importance in my life. 

    That’s perhaps why I was so frustrated in the first place. I tried too hard to fit in when in fact I should have known I would never truly fit in  in the first place. Realizing and accepting that, I’ve moved forward, taking my own culture and values into consideration in my life again, and find living here much more enjoyable than before. Even if I stick out, I don’t care. I’m proud of who I am, even if I stick out like a sore thumb in Japan.

    Again, thanks for the excellent article and I look forward to reading more.

  • http://twitter.com/Ball_Tazer Michael Ball Tazer

    LOL whats with the seemingly demotivating posts about Japan this week? To be honest I kinda stopped reading when he said “stress related illness” because I have that right now… bs

  • Anonymous

    A very nice article. I think what adds to the difficulty of fitting in in Japan is the Western notion of doing stuff “for a couple of years” before moving on to something new, while in Japan you are clearly in it for the long haul. It’s the feeling of ‘not getting anywhere’ while in fact you *are* getting somewhere (possibly) but it’s just not noticable for the first 10 years.

  • Anonymous

    Well, to help you address your demotivation, by demotivating you a little more, the ethic described in this post is really the main thing that starts slamming non-Japanese in the half year to year after arriving here. The less aware and less prepared for it you are, the harder it will hit. There are really only three ways to deal with it – 1) you reject it and leave (as many do after a year), 2) you try harder to become as Japanese as possible (quickest road to stress illness and burnout, but great if you can do it), or 3) you learn to understand it and manage it. The more prepared you are to read between the lines and perform to the expectations of people here, the less it is going to creep up on you. 

    I suppose I could rave about how Japan is a land of gadgets and anime (as it indeed is) to bring people here, but I also want people to stay here and be successful here. I’m sorry to break it to you that life here isn’t a piece of cake, but I hope it will help people push through the culture shocks that really hit everyone at some point, regardless of how hardcore or well prepared you are sure you are.

    The stress and burnout comes from not being aware of this stuff, and not knowing how to cope. I’ve seen it happen, and do my best with posts like this to try to help people avoiding getting into this kind of thing, so they can better enjoy their lives here. 

    Apologize for freaking anyone out too much…. :)

  • Anonymous

    Me too. It really is all about understanding and managing mutual expectations – many foreigners go through a lot of stress here because they don’t get the people they work or live with, and vice versa. Each situation is of course unique, but I’ve found these kind of very different core values are a near universal source of frustration for westerners here. 

    That said, Japan IS a great place to live. People are nice, streets are clean, practically no crime, best gadgets, fast Internet, great food, great service. You’ve just gotta manage the awkward stuff in order to get the most enjoyment out of the good stuff. 

  • Anonymous

    All very good points well made. When I was talking with Koichi about topics (I threw about 10 suggestions up), I came down to this one mainly because I think the issues and principles addressed really tie in to just about every other topic I came up with. I chose this topic because I think it is a good starting point to go back to when going through the plethora of fascinating related topics you could really branch off into in detail from this. 

    Sakaiya’s 13 page chapter on the Japanese work ethic, and the diverse analogies and illustrations he used really is one of the best explanations of Japanese culture I’ve ever read, and I really could write 10 blogs based off that alone – I really only skimmed the surface of it here. 

    My original interest in these ideas was also tied to my interest in political and economic theory – people really struggle to define the very sophisticated political and economic system Japan had during the shogunate. Green political scholars talk about Japan as the first “green society” because of its adoption of Malthusian values (about population and limits on resources) long before they came up in Europe. Some see it as a more successful example of authoritarian fascism. Many leftists view it as having many socialist values. What I have ended up about Sakaiya is that he avoids the trap that western academics fall into of attempting to define and classify Japan’s traditional society by these western concepts. Instead, he talks about Japanese society and culture of hundreds of years ago in exactly the same way that he talks about Japan today – and gives you a much fuller picture with which to come to your own conclusions. Modern Japan is of course very different to pre-Meiji, but it is refreshing to be able to view modern Japan through the context of traditional Japanese culture as it is being explained to you, rather than academic constructs devised for analysis of western societies. 

    There are many tangents I can and will take in future about this kind of thing, and my own values and perspectives. Thanks for the thoughtful comment. 

  • Anonymous

    Cheers man – and yes indeed. Attaching judgment is better for reading and perhaps academia, but on a day to day basis, it is kind of self defeating. And indeed, very aware of the minefields of cultural relativism, exceptions to rules and so on, but in the end of the day, I’ve come to the conclusion that while all those disclaimers are important, they mustn’t stop you from being able to make your own clear interpretation. There is no universal “fix” for anything, but it is only when you start to really understand challenges you face, that you can come up with solutions that really make everything work best for everyone. 

    This little nugget of information is something that has probably helped me more than anything else with getting through the most challenging situations I’ve encountered here. Cheers for the nice comment. 

  • Anonymous

    Haha, I’ve got all the Manuka Honey you could ever want!

    Amen to “know thyself”. One thing I would add in a more targeted discussion on that topic is that it is also very much a two way street. It is hard to understand objectively what your own values are until you encounter conflicting views, which is why I think travel and encountering different cultures is such an important part of personal development. 

    I always feel that those who travel in order to preach and spread values miss out somehow. You don’t have to constantly assert values in order to keep them. I think people who listen and focus on learning about others on travel end up learning far more about themselves. 

    Lots of people talk about how living in Japan is a constant back and forth, like a tug and war of embracing and rejecting local culture and one’s own culture. It’s an exhausting but enlightening process. 

    Everyone should do it, eh? :)

    Peace

  • Anonymous

    Actually, your comment brings to mind two things. 

    First is the Japanese proverb “san nen mo ishi demo”, which translates out fully as “even a rock can get warm if you sit on it for 3 years” – kind of a belief that if you plug away at something, no matter how hard it is, you can get the hang of it if you take 3 years. I’ve noticed this is kind of the time unit for development and advancement through stages that many working Japanese seem to take, and you hear the kotowaza get used in this context.

    The other is the winning catch-phrase of Akira in Sega’s Virtua Fighter, where he taunts his opponent saying “Jyunen wa hayaindayo!” translated as “ten years flies by in no time”, ie- it’s gonna take 10 years more preparation and training before you can stand alongside me. It’s basically a winning taunt to the loser that they’re gonna have to train for 10 more years before they even bother again, but it is said in regular Japanese sometimes too. I guess it shows the cultural long view often taken toward learning and development, not that there are not also plenty of examples that go the complete opposite way. 

    It is fair to say that training and development is viewed in terms of apprenticeship towards a view of lifetime dedication. It’s becoming more common now for Japanese to job-hop and attitudes are changing, but when I got here 13 years ago, a job history at multiple companies, with stays of less than 3 years at certain companies was often frowned upon. 

    So yeah, patience is one of the first things you need to learn, I guess.  

  • http://gakuranman.com Gakuranman

    It’s a vast and interesting topic! :)

    The thing I’m trying to understand is how understanding the historical background and why many Japanese people behave the way they do has helped you to get through the challenging situations. Understanding is one thing, but when you are at a stand off because of the differences in values you hold and the other (Japanese) person holds, someone has to give in order for there to be a solution. It’s like the arguing in Japanese topic we discussed – it’s all well and good to aim for mutual harmony, but that’s not a realistic solution in many situations. The ideal situation would be that both parties find a middle ground with their values, but when working for a Japanese company, one can hardly tell his or her boss to ‘broaden their mind’, right? ;)

    Your decision to move to gaishikei is perhaps most telling – is it incorrect to interpret that as your unwillingness to fully accept the Japanese artisan work ethic any more? I’d like to hear more of the nitty-gritty details you are alluding to relating to exactly how you manage the value differences. Perhaps a topic for another time, eh? :p

  • http://gakuranman.com Gakuranman

    It’s a vast and interesting topic! :)

    The thing I’m trying to understand is how understanding the historical background and why many Japanese people behave the way they do has helped you to get through the challenging situations. Understanding is one thing, but when you are at a stand off because of the differences in values you hold and the other (Japanese) person holds, someone has to give in order for there to be a solution. It’s like the arguing in Japanese topic we discussed – it’s all well and good to aim for mutual harmony, but that’s not a realistic solution in many situations. The ideal situation would be that both parties find a middle ground with their values, but when working for a Japanese company, one can hardly tell his or her boss to ‘broaden their mind’, right? ;)

    Your decision to move to gaishikei is perhaps most telling – is it incorrect to interpret that as your unwillingness to fully accept the Japanese artisan work ethic any more? I’d like to hear more of the nitty-gritty details you are alluding to relating to exactly how you manage the value differences. Perhaps a topic for another time, eh? :p

  • Anonymous

    Yep, solutions are an entirely different kettle of fish, and I wouldn’t prescribe anything in that regards, solutions are very situation specific, and very much depend on the personalities and relationships involved. I think it’s generally fair to say that the impetus is going to be on you to adapt more than it is for Japanese to be more accommodating of foreigners – the extent that you can get away with more token acts of understanding (with more open minded people) or really need to change your mindset and commit more deeply really depends on where you are, what you are doing and who you are with. 

    The point is that in most cases, many of these points of friction and frustration just carry on unresolved where neither side understands the mindset of the other. The point is, once you can understand the mindset of the other person, you can then start to think about what you can do to accommodate them in a way you can live with yourself. It’s the question of striking the right balance, and that sweet spot is always in flux, depending on the other personalities and roles of people around you.

    My decision to go gaishi was more complicated than that. That is itself a post for another day, or maybe for some beers. I’d just point out that I was seconded into a Japanese company for nearly a year not long after joining a gaishi-kei, which I enjoyed, and my decision to leave my old job – which I really did love and enjoy, was based more on considerations of career advancement and wanting to realize my earning potential given that I was newly married at the time, among other things. It was never a rejection of those values, but more a reappraisal and adjustment of the balance I was keeping, based on the time I had spent here. 

    Definitely, another topic for another day, but one I will get around to doing. 

  • http://luckyhill.worpress.com elisabel

    I actually told this to my supervisor once: I had always thought that Japan must be the most efficient country in the world, since one of its companies had developed the system of kaizen.  Growing up in Detroit, all around me I’d hear talk of “kaizen,” the Toyota Production System, one of the reasons the Big 3 were getting their butts kicked; everyone talked about efficient manufacturing like it was something Japan had invented. So, I jumped to the conclusion that everything in Japan must run smoothly, efficiently, and logically. I thought everyone was doing kaizen all the time!

    I wouldn’t say I was shocked by the fact that this isn’t true; I realized I had come to this conclusion based on the auto industry and that it was wrong to apply its standards to a culture wholesale, but as a long time fan of efficiency (which to me means doing things with minimal waste while maintaining a high level on the finished product) I *was* a bit disappointed. I guess it’s an example of the harmful effects of “positive” stereotyping, ahaha.

  • Hokkaido Kuma

    I’ve been living in Japan for just over a year now (15 months to be exact) and as I read this article, I sat here just nodding my head in agreement to everything.  Finally! Someone who understands what it is to be a foreigner living in Japan!  It’s not all ROBOTS and CRAZY FETISHES!

    I work in the education system teaching English, while not the business sector of Japan, the mindset is the same.When I first arrived to Japan, I found it incredibly baffling how stringent and daunting the English education system is here.  It’s incredibly redundant and I strongly feel that students and teachers work way too hard but just aren’t getting the proper results.  Like you, it’s my nature to find other ways that are much more efficient and enjoyable, not only for myself but for my students as well.  A lot of times my strategies are tossed aside by the teachers I work with and it can be really frustrating (there have been times where I’ve thrown little hissy fits; something I feel deeply embarrassed about just thinking about it now).  But at the same time, I understand why they do it, as outlined in your article.  While it is painful to have to endure Japanese work ethic, the benefit of being foreign in Japan is that you begin to learn how to blend your culture, strategies, ethic, etc with that of the Japanese way.  And surprisingly, you’ll learn who you are by what you’re not.  If that makes any sense.

    Like I said, I’ve only been here for 15 months and there is still an incredible amount of things I need to learn.  Likewise, I’d be lying if I said I didn’t get frustrated at least once a day.  It’s a growing change and change isn’t easy.  

    I’m just an anonymous commentator, but this article is seriously informative.  And if you plan to live in Japan for an extended period of time, this is a must read.

  • http://twitter.com/hj871 hj871

    Wonderful article. This reminds me of something Khatz mentioned in one of his AJATT articles about Shuhari (守破離) – the 3 stages of learning mastery, and how that applies to language learning too. In that article he said that we should stop trying to be so creative.

    The first stage of Shuhari is said to be learning the fundamentals, sticking closely to tradition, following an established theory of doing things, learning from a single master, etc. I would agree that this artisan work ethic is something that also very much applies to learning Japanese (or any language). In Western thought, and especially American thought, we have a tendency towards wanting to break away from tradition early, innovate, and use our skills creatively as soon as possible. We don’t like the idea of “rote learning”. We are highly focused on efficiency and productivity. Americans still very much have the Purtian work ethic, where we tend to view hard work as a duty or service. In Shuhari, the stage of creativity and breaking away with tradition doesn’t come until after a period of honing your skills first through fundamentals.

    As we study Japanese, it is difficult sometimes to escape the frustration of tedious grammar, kanji stroke orders, etc… We want to be able to use the language right away. Sometimes it’s difficult to accept that it may take years before we start to see the fruit of our labor, and before we can truly begin to use Japanese creatively. All of those little tedious details start to come together in due time. There are obvious pros and cons, of course, to this sort of approach. But I think we, as language learners, could really stand to learn a lot from concepts like 守破離, apprenticeship, and artisan work ethic. It eases my mind, a bit, actually. To know that each detail and each task has a meaning and a purpose…that nothing is truly a waste of time. It makes work feel less boring and tedious when I think of it that way, in terms of learning and character building..

    (It also explains a lot to me why I find Apple products so darn appealing, even when they don’t necessarily have all the “bells and whistles” of other similar products….LOL)

  • Alicja Kopeć

    Reading this, I think I’d quickly go crazy if I started to work in Japan… I absolutely cannot stand bullshit rules and such extreme attention to detail, or rejecting more efficient solutions to problems. Now, I can understand where this thinking is coming from, and in some way I admire their work ethic, but it’s not for me.

    Now, it makes me wonder if I should even consider moving to Japan at some point in the future, but surely there must be jobs that allow for more freedom, right? xD

  • Kellylav143

    Thanks for the article, that is a very insightful way to look at it, and I imagine that it’s a big help when working in Japan. Plus Miyagi is just awesome, I wished I was Daniel San when I was a kid! (that is, until the one with the girl came out, then I wished to be Julie San, since I’m a girl) =)

  • http://www.tofugu.com/ Hashi

    Thank you for your comment, I hadn’t heard of shuhari before. Do you happen to know which AJATT article that was mentioned in? I’m curious to read it.

  • http://twitter.com/hj871 hj871

    I think it was this one: Stop Being Creative maybe? Yeah I hadn’t heard of it before either. It’s a pretty short entry, but he mentions it briefly at the very end, so that sparked my curiosity to go read about it =)

  • Anonymous

    That was an eloquent and well written article.  I have one question, that does not directly relate to the article, and I would be grateful if you would be willing to answer it .  Even after you learned to deal with these differences, did you find that it was difficult to be accepted as a member of your peers at work or any other part of society?  I have heard that it is near impossible to be accepted as a member of society in Japan. (The only exception I can think of is Donald Keene.)  I would like to work with the Japanese in Japan, but I would like to do so through an American company.  So, although I will skip working for a Japanese company and (hopefully) work for a foreign company in Japan, I found this article very informative and I thank you for your insight.

  • AZ다ルﻤ

    hmm…i think i’ve sort of picked this kind of philosophy before. i owe it most to my early taekwondo training, i think. i know it’s korean, but in martial arts in general, if your hand, your foot isn’t within one millimeter of where it should be, then you’ll get “dressed down” for it (never heard that expression before, living here in the midwest us).

    it’s sad, though, my old kwan jang nim retired, and now the new school has lost all its tradition…funny, it’s name is actually “traditional martial arts…” but as a teacher there, i think i’ve been trying to instill this kind of “artisan philosophy” into my students. it hasn’t worked well, and i think it has to do with this vast difference between the reasons why we work, and the intentions with which we work, between east and west. both have their advantages, disadvantages, but there’s something in it, to be able to understand and appreciate both.

    my parents are from pakistan, and i’ve learned plenty of asian-type philosophy kind of stuff growing up under them, and i think i’ve had my own run-ins with american/western-type culture, even though i’ve lived here all my life.

    yeah, it’s interesting–i just hope with what we all learn from other cultures can help us all, somehow, in making a better world for ourselves, and for tomorrow…

  • Julien_Klein

    Like Hokkaido Kuma, I’ve been living in Japan for roughly 15 months, working in the education system. In all likelihood, I crossed paths with either him or her in Tokyo as we were ushered into Japan’s education system, bright eyed and full of preconceptions. As I read this article, I kept nodding in agreement as I remembered many frustrations that I’ve encountered while living and working here.

    One of the main frustrations I have encountered is that as a person from a country where we go out of our way to learn about, understand, embrace, and integrate (not assimilate) other cultures (Canada), I have had to come to terms with the simple fact that the same is not true here. I’m also far from fluent in Japanese, both in terms of language and culture, which compounds many of the problems which arise on a daily basis. However, there are many ways in which we can adapt and change without losing our own identities. Leading a balanced life while remembering your roots will help people who are struggling in so many ways. Joining an aikido dojo (run purely in Japanese) has gone a long way to helping me both understand and cope with the challenges of living in Japan.

    On the other side of the same coin, I have witnessed many people arrive in Japan expecting to fit right in and ‘become’ Japanese. Such aspirations are sadly misplaced as you can never truly depart from your own culture while becoming wholly apart of another culture. Additionally, Japan is a place that both beckons you to join with one hand while holding you at bay with the other. I think I read that somewhere…Will Ferguson, perhaps? I think Mana said it best in her response:”I tried too hard to fit in when in fact I should have known I would never truly fit in  in the first place. Realizing and accepting that, I’ve moved forward, taking my own culture and values into consideration in my life again, and find living here much more enjoyable than before. Even if I stick out, I don’t care. I’m proud of who I am, even if I stick out like a sore thumb in Japan.”

    Unfortunately, even though we neither can nor should wholly attempt to become ‘Japanese,’ we are stuck in a catch-22 as it is expected that we will whole heartedly embrace and work within the Japanese system. This is one of the things that really stuck out to me in your article. It’s like living in a state of flux, 24/7. There are no quick fixes or easy answers to the quandary set forth by this catch-22. Each of us has to ask, in our own way, ‘how then shall we live?’ Every answer will be different…

  • Anonymous

    A lot of people are raising a question that often comes up – “is it possible for a foreigner to ever fit in here?” I talked about this at length in a video - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EYvpHPT0ZM0 I should do a blog summarizing it at some point.

    Like with most things, it’s complicated… The short answer is “yes, absolutely”, it is possible to fit in and be accepted, at least by “some” Japanese. The key to understand about this the idea of “acceptance” as westerners think about it is really only extended by Japanese to their peer groups, which are pretty small – class mates, co hires, confidants, basically family and anyone of equal seniority in a social context who they personally get along with. It is unusual generally even to invite friends over to your house or do things we would consider normal in terms of acceptance.

    If you marry into or join a Japanese family in some way, or are hired in a job with Japanese coworkers who you work and train with and are of equal rank – AND you get on well with them personally, then acceptance as one of the group is possible. If you don’t have a Japanese family or peer group, you will be treated most of the time as a “guest”, which in Japanese society is considered to be one of the best ways to be treated. This is kinda why Japanese get irked by foreigners complaining about stuff – because Japanese are often envious of the way foreigners are treated within Japanese society, when less “accepted” normal Japanese seldom get any kind of special treatment. 

    My personal advice based on this is that finding and making friends with Japanese people who can be considered your “peers” (not superiors or juniors) is a great way of setting up a more enjoyable life here. If there are no such people at your work (other workers of equal rank, or you don’t get on with people there), joining a Japanese sports or cultural club is a good way of doing this. One thing to bear in mind however is that the perceptions mentioned in this post do colour how Japanese will judge you as a person – it is easier to make friends when you show you are a decent person by Japanese standards. Basically, understanding the above does make it easy to make friends, and have deep conversations with Japanese people without misunderstandings happening.

  • Amamoko

    I really enjoyed this article. I attempting to go through Japanese-style job hunting this winter. I feel like this helped me a little to prepare….A little. I had to write an essay on “me in 10 years.” I felt like I was grade school.

  • Masumi

    急がば回れ。

  • JackiJinx

    Most every time I read an article regarding Japanese culture, I feel that I relate more to the Japanese side of culture. Regarding work, I am rather unnecessarily a hard worker for my minimum wage job, help other workers if they look like they need it or if they agree to it, and find other things to keep me busy. I’m always told that I don’t really need to do x or y (ie unfold every cardboard box before recycling), but it does help if I do it.

    I’m not trying to haughty, though I could see where that comes from. I truly feel better and less worried regarding Japan when I compare my own standards and expectations with generalized ones from Japan. Does this make sense?

  • annarborcy

    I read the refed post…. seemed to only be concerned with using the Japanese language.  I was hoping that it would be dealing with how an underling might contribute his/her hot idea or not, in a setting such as business.

  • Elwood

    Sounds oddly like the military to me.  Being berated by sergeants for having a piece of the uniform not centered where it’s supposed to be, staying in step while walking (and walking in formation with more than 2 people), closets must be arranged perfectly, rooms must be cleaned to standard, and spending years working for a promotion that is always just out of reach.

  • Anonymous

    So it’s all bullshit…  but people spend their lives trying to make it the best bullshit around.  Maybe you *CAN* polish a turd? 

  • Patrick Sinks


    Sounds oddly like the military to me.  Being berated by sergeants for having a piece of the uniform not centered where it’s supposed to be, staying in step while walking (and walking in formation with more than 2 people), closets must be arranged perfectly, rooms must be cleaned to standard, and spending years working for a promotion that is always just out of reach.”

    Lol, that’s not what it’s like to be in the military, that’s just how you are treated in basic training. Working a military job is very similar to a regular job.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002442264776 J Pedro Veiga

    Wonderful post.

  • Abraham Saldaña

    I’m from Mexico, and recently finished med school. I speak English fairly well, and right now, I’m learning Japanese. I’ve always liked Japanese culture (I’ve been practicing Aikido and Zen meditation for years, I admire that guys a lot). The next step for me is to do the residency to become an ophtalmologist. I would love to go to Japan and work on my own (be my own boss) as a Dr.

    Do you think there are chances for me to be succesfull in Japan? Or the people would go with some other Dr. before going with a gaijin one?

    Maybe I can take care of tourists and other gaijin in Japan!!! :P

  • Abraham Saldaña

    Also, I know that Japanese are humble, but I have to say that I’m really good (I graduated from UNAM, the best med school in Latinamerica), maybe this could help a little little bit…

  • CambridgeStephen

    Refreshing and insight-full.