The Biggest Traps of Talking About Japan

Writing for Tofugu, I try and read as much as I can about Japan. I want to keep on top of current events, learn more about Japan and, most importantly, hear different perspectives.

In all of the articles, essays, posts, and books I’ve read, I’ve noticed that there are a few traps that people regularly fall into when they talk about Japan. These few cliches have bothered me more and more over the years as it’s become increasingly apparent that they’re borderline harmful.

I don’t want to criticize others too much because Lord knows that I’ve done some pretty crap writing, but I really want to acknowledges these cliches so that we might get past them.

“Weird Japan”

A lot of people talk about Japan as “weird Japan,” a place where all the people are strange and do wacky things and nothing makes sense. I wrote about the dangers of focusing too much on “weird Japan” last year, but a few things have happened recently that make me want to bring it up again.

Last year, one of the more reported-on stories about Japan was about a small group of people in Tokyo. These people took body modification to the extreme by injecting saline into their foreheads to make what essentially looked like a giant bagel on their face.

It’s definitely a weird and interesting phenomenon, but the way that most outlets reported on this was sadly predictable and really disappointing.

bagel-head-japan

It’s a new trend! Everybody’s doing it!

There were maybe a handful of people doing this in Japan, but lots of Western media outlets were quick to declare these “bagel heads” a “trend” in Japan, as if everybody and their grandma were sticking needles into their foreheads and letting the saline flow. Those kooky Japanese people!

More recently, Kotaku wrote about a hair salon in Osaka that created a hairdo that looks like a tomato. The author stresses that this hairdo is “not mainstream” and it’s hard to imagine that more than a few people in Japan have this haircut.

tomato-fashion

As if on cue people have begun declaring this one-off hairdo as “Japan’s Newest Hairstyle Craze.” What a weird country! People style their hair to look like a tomato!

There are certainly weird things that happen in Japan, but taking individual occurrences and pretending that they’re some kind of new, national craze is really disingenuous.

Instead, focus on the larger societal and cultural differences that actually set Japan apart from the rest of the world. As one Tofugu commenter so eloquently said:

After a while, it’s not weird [in Japan] in the obvious ways. It’s actually way weirder than that.

Going to Extremes

As you start to get interested in Japan, you’ll start to meet people who are really excited about the country. Isn’t Japanese food great? Aren’t Japanese toilets cool? Japanese culture is the best. I want to move to Japan!

On the flipside, there are plenty of people who love to gripe about Japan. As somebody who has trouble writing a lot (my essays for school were always under the minimum word count), I’m still blown away that Kotaku ran a 15,000 word rant about what sucks about Japan.

Neither perspective paints a complete picture.

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Sure, there’s a lot to like about Japan, but there’s plenty that should cause concern, too. For me, things like Japan’s its flawed legal system, and its high suicide rate make me see Japan in a different light.

Raging against Japan isn’t helpful, either. For the most part, the bad things Japan have some sort of twisted logic behind them that fits them into a bigger context. It isn’t always something you have to like or agree with, but understand why the bad things are bad is incredibly helpful to seeing the bigger situation.

I think there’s a lot of value in a more nuanced approach. It’s not always exciting as going to the extremes and won’t elicit as strong of an reaction from people; but I think that through moderation, you’re a lot more accurate and learn more.


I won’t pretend like I know the One True Way to Talk About Japan, and I hope that people call me when my writing isn’t accurate or is misleading. But I think that these are things that really plague the dialogue about Japan and, once we get past these tired tropes and cliches, we can learn a lot more.

Bonus! Our wonderful illustrator Aya has whipped up a high-res wallpaper version of her illustration for this post, which you can find here.

  • weewtw

    absolutely agree with henro 88. japanese people bitch about the shitty quality of their movies. they have like internet threads about houga vs youga. i’ve personally yet to see a good japanese movie. i haven’t seen many of course but just from all the causes of their shittiness it’s gonna be difficult or rare to find a good one lol. i really really hope to see a good japanese movie someday and i do have stuff on my que list . i wil celebrate when i find a good one :)

  • Henro 88

    Seven Samurai, Yojimbo, anything Ghibli, and, um…there are some others that aren’t BAD, but aren’t GOOD, either. Something like 20th Century Boys isn’t god-awful, but it just isn’t good, either. I would also recommend the ALWAYS Sunset on San-Chome series – I haven’t seen it properly (I watched it on my first plane ride to Japan), but I can tell you that the first one has its great moments (when the dad is drinking with his war buddy), and the sequels are on par with the first one.

    I mean, good Japanese movies exist, but Japanese people that I know don’t watch Kurosawa, and I’ve never had anyone recommend a Japanese movie to me outside of that.

  • Henro 88

    I don’t write a blog, but I would counter that I’d be interested in hearing what contemporary scholars say about Sakamoto Ryoma and his rising popularity in TV and movies. He was a pioneer of modernization and democratic thinking, and his rising popularity might (might?) be an interesting contrast to the shift right that Japan took in their last elections.

    The kawaii aesthetic was what I was talking about elsewhere in the thread – that “weird Japan” is absolutely EVERYWHERE, and permeates the culture. Kawaii is 100% a part of that, because, like any other “weird” thing, you never, ever know when you will find it. I personally…I have no ideas on that. Kawaii is just there, and I have yet to figure anything out about it, so good luck.

    Hey, for post-modern art, I might suggest you look into a character called Funasshi フナッシー. I LOVE Funasshi, and I have this feeling that he represents…SOMETHING, but I don’t quite know what. He is absolutely post-modern as fuck, and I am pretty sure he gives us a glimpse into Japanese counter-culture. Funasshi basically breaks every rule possible – and people LOVE him. Not an artist, but I’d be comfortable calling him a performance artist.

  • http://www.psychomelody.com/ Psychomelody

    This is very, very important. I wish this article was much longer, but I think the comments dwell into a bit of what I want said too. But there are so many levels to this that need to be addressed… the world needs an entire re-education on Japan.

    As for that guy in that Kotaku article… me and my friends decided that he would be unhappy ANYWHERE. That sad soul just happens to live in Japan. It’s the same with a lot of people… the man with the biggest voice get’s the most attention. I know a lot of people who have come to Japan, had one certain experience, and wrote off everything after that. They write articles, post in forums, and only have one thing to say. There’s also the issue of “The Tokyo Trap” where people never leave the city and think that’s all Japan has to offer.

    I’ve lived here for awhile. I’ve lived out in the middle of nowhere and the big city. Even people who have lived here as long as me or longer spout these stupid things because it’s what they think people EXPECT. Even if they know it’s far from true.

  • crella

    When people find out I live in Japan, 9 times out of 10 I get questions about guys in skirts (that one pic that is forever circling the net), women wearing cat ears, and panty vending machines. Sigh. You have guys wanting to move to Japan because they think it’s some kind of amusement park 24/7. I send them PMs about social conventions and etiquette, etc and they never believe me.

  • Henro 88

    Here’s my favorite Funasshi video, I think: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5qeg39jgvsg

    Funasshi is obviously supposed to be part of some organized routine, but he’s not doing it. He’s wandering around doing whatever he wants. Funasshi basically gives zero fucks, and I’m sure you can turn that into a paper somehow.

  • http://riechanster.blogspot.com Riechan

    I loved that blog! The writer is back in the US now I believe but all her older posts are really worth reading!

  • http://www.facebook.com/joel.alexander.980 Joel Alexander

    If they don’t like the Japanese in the background of the videos you send, the solution is obvious: offer to stop sending them videos. No need to offend their sensibilities. =)

  • http://www.facebook.com/joel.alexander.980 Joel Alexander

    She’s still posting. She does reflections on her old posts on Tuesdays, a fairly chunky essay on some random memory on Wednesdays, and new things she’s discovered that she does or doesn’t miss on Thursdays.

  • Raleford

    I do carry a knife (multi-tool, technically) with me, and from what I’ve gathered, even that would seem weird to people from a lot of other countries. Even other parts of this country to some extent, though it’s pretty common around here. It’s a lot about perspective I guess, and it makes sense that our “boring” NA or European cultures (which despite close relations, are not even really that similar in a lot of ways) could seem “exotic” or strange to others

  • http://riechanster.blogspot.com Riechan

    ah thankyou! I didn’t know!

  • http://twitter.com/tokumeiyamada Tokumei Yamada

    Paranoia agent is kind of old, but there are still good anime (Space Brothers is one of my faves) and the loli thing will wear out its welcome soon enough, so we can forget that awful period in anime history…

  • http://twitter.com/tokumeiyamada Tokumei Yamada

    They are simultaneously one of the most technologically advanced and technologically backward nations on earth. It’s that duality that really takes time to get used to. How almost no one accepts credit cards, how there’s internet EVERYWHERE but it’s all subscription based, how major stores still sell blank 3 1/2 inch floppies and zip disks…

    Japan can be mind-numbing to navigate for an outsider… Both in the literal sense (Japanese address system is strange, and street name signs are confusing) and in the sense of just living there.

  • http://twitter.com/tokumeiyamada Tokumei Yamada

    He was annoying. I read Kotaku for both Game news and different perspectives on “Otakuish” things, but Tim would write on issues I wanted to discuss, but I couldn’t stomach sitting through his long, meandering novels so I could adequately discuss them. It really frustrated me when he wrote about topics that were interesting to me.

    There was actually a rash of bannings for people putting tl;dr on their posts, but that was a well deserved tl;dr.

    I’m really glad he doesn’t post articles on Kotaku anymore. If I went into an interesting article, I’d always have to check the author, then take the time to scroll to the bottom to see that, “Yeah, it was another Tim Rogers novel. Guess I won’t be discussing this topic now.”

  • David Andrade

    I definitely know how this is, many people assume I like anime or manga when I say I want to go to Japan, when really it’s because I want to study abroad for robotics and mechanical engineering. It definitely is an annoying stereotype.

  • Haruko-chan

    Thank you for that article. I completely agree. It is often frustrating to see how the media report on Japan. When watching documentaries or reading books, it is often very difficult to find a nuanced picture. Additionally subcultures are portrayed as being mainstream. That is exactly why I started my own blog: to give information about the ‘normal’ Japan of people’s everyday lives. Which admittedly can still be pretty wacky at times though.

  • Haruko-chan

    p.s. my blog about daily Japanese life is http://www.thejapans.wordpress.com

  • Huw

    an excerpt from the kotaku article, his response to the office rule of saying good morning:
    “I never talked to that guy again! From that day on, when I arrived in the office and he was the only other person there, I wold snap my fingers, point directly at him, and then, when I had gotten his attention, I’d give him a sharp military salute, letting some huge “HOOH” sound escape the back of my throat.”

    “FDLKASHFLAKDFJ WE HAVE TO SAY GOOD MORNING! THIS IS AN OUTRAGE I AIN’T BEING PUT DOWN BY THE MAN!”
    What a dick. That article is nothing but paranoia, hatred and venom. It’s no wonder people didn’t address him with ‘-san’.

  • Helen Kirifides

    I just read the 15,000 word rant that
    was linked, and first of all, I have to agree, that i’m blown away that any
    blog would let such a crazy, wordy, poorly written rant by such an obvious
    total as*hole go up on their page. If I ever cared to check out the rest of the
    blog before that, I definitely am not interested now. Also i’m blown away that
    such a crap person with such a jaded crap attitude could get, and keep a job in
    Japan. *Note to all; if THAT guy can get and keep a job in Japan, so can ALMOST
    ANYONE ELSE who has even the SLIGHTEST inkling to do so. So, hop too it guys!
    Time’s-a-wastin’! Maybe one of us can get HIS job, since not only can he not
    even be bothered to say Good Morning to his co-worker when he shows up and
    they’re the only ones there (completely rude even in western cultures, and even
    kind of mean), he assumes that his co-worker was being condescending to tell
    him he should say Good Morning, because if other people were there and didn’t
    hear him say it, they would think he wasn’t part of the team. Of course of course,
    sometimes people are being passive-aggressive, but in this case it really just
    sounded like his co-worker was looking out for him, and didn’t even realize
    that the way he said it might have sounded condensing. I think he was wrong
    about his interpretation of いらっしゃいませ too, and really d*ck of him to say that the girl
    behind the counter at Starbucks, immediately put herself “beneath” him by
    saying that rather than Konnichiwa. Actually I think that he’s just bitter that
    more Japanese chicks don’t like him, because he also mentioned how it’s hard to
    date for this reason or that reason (Maybe it’s his d*ck attitude. Smart girls
    don’t often like guys with sh*tty attitudes and a negative, condescending demeanor). And that his “drummer”
    (puh-leeeese. *gag*) couldn’t work out at his gym with him because he has a
    tattoo *cry*? Poor baby! (as one
    commenter also echoed my feelings exactly) Thems
    the rules! It’s not your country where you can vote on the rules. And it’s not
    a life or death rule, just inconvenient for you. Order P90X or something, and get over it!
    This is exactly the kind of guy I’d be arguing with, apologizing for, and
    completely ashamed to be in the “foreigner” category with if I worked
    with him. Again, I really wonder how he ever managed to get a job there in the
    first place. He did make a few points (but really not “points”, more like,
    stated truths that everyone already knows, even if you’ve never stepped foot in
    Japan. Like that it seems that sarcasm isn’t a commonly understood thing, that
    Japanese game shows are hokey and super old skool like a more old skool version
    of Laugh In even, but with all the 派手
    of a game show on Telemundo, The whole “conformation
    conversation” thing; he called it something else, but I see a lot of that
    in interviews on YouTube, (Do you like playing solo, or with a band? Well, I
    like being with a band, but I really like playing solo right now. So, you like
    playing solo then? Yes, solo. So, solo? Yes.) and it is super weird, but it’s a
    different culture, and a different way of communication, so why whine about
    it?? In any case, it’s FAR better than his way of communication which is just
    to be JUST AS STEREOTYPICAL by being the “ain’t nobody gonna hold me down-I’m
    a rebel cause i’m in a band, and i’m from the west-so FU, I can say and do what
    I want” foreigner. God, this guy really annoyed me. I’ll leave my own
    15,000 word rant, with links to these two great videos on YouTube about the cultural
    differences in Japan.

    This rant from Gimmieaflakeman in a
    response to a YouTube commenter who put up videos about prejudice he felt in
    Japan. http://youtu.be/bUMoHv4Ac-8

    and this entire playlist from TheJapanChannelDcom on
    whatever subject you’re most interested in within the subject of cultural
    differences. The first vid listed is a good intro to the rest of the playlist. :)
    http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL54734B4601A97FC7

    Oh and, great article, Hashi! Thanks! :)

  • Helen Kirifides

    Oh yeah, I forgot to mention the vegetarian thing in my own rant above. Lol. I don’t eat red meat or chicken, and although I have heard (on TheJapanChannelDcom on YouTube) that even if you order something without meat, it often will have meat based broth or seasoning or whatever, which i’m sure can be really annoying, I think this guy is just ridiculous. It’s not like they don’t sell vegetables in Japan. If he lives there, he should learn to make his own food (it’s not that hard to cook a vegetable, even on a single stove top burner, i promise) and bring it with him to work or wherever. I hope he’s not American, cause then I’d be even more embarrassed by his obnoxiousness. *sigh*.

  • Helen Kirifides

    Yeah, don’t read it (the linked article, i’m talking about guys, not Hashi’s article :)). It’s just… really stupid, on so many levels, haha.

  • Helen Kirifides

    Oh, and i found this list of Japan likes and dislikes, which was a great read (the writer’s opinion of course, but a bit more balanced than the one most talked about on this thread. :)) from the blog Surviving in Japan.

    http://www.survivingnjapan.com/2013/05/what-i-miss-and-dont-miss-about-living.html

  • Guest

    If you go in expecting 僕の彼女はサイボーグ to be a good movie then I don’t know what to say….

    I don’t have to go out of my way to find good Japanese movies, all you have to do is avoid their b-movie horror genre, monster films, ultraman films, anime live-action stuff and you’ll find normal good movies like anything else, with good production values.

  • Guest

    If you pick some random B-level Japanese movie like Robo-Geisha it isn’t gonna be a masterpiece, stay away from that stuff and watch normal movies and they’re the same as anything else….